I called my OBGYN today for two reasons:
1. I want to be referred to an RE
2. I'm not being monitored on Clomid and I have no clue what is going on this cycle
The good: My OBGYN is mailing my referral tomorrow morning! *happy dance*
The bad: He said here in Manitoba, they don't monitor patients on clomid b/c everyone would be lining up for U/S....grrr!
So, I guess I have to wait this cycle out until CD30 when I can start progesterone to bring on AF...FUIF!
Re: So Good News and Bad News
So glad you are being referred to a RE! Most OB's don't monitor on clomid. I was oblivious to the need of monitoring also and let my OB put me on clomid for 2 cycles. When I went to a RE, he was beyond annoyed that OB's jump right on the clomid band wagon when "they don't know what they are doing with it" (his words).
I really flarking hate OB/GYN's. To the point that I never want to leave my RE. I have had so many give me incorrect information, say things about IF that they should never say, and had one actually tell me that "RE's just try random things until they work". I highly doubt that nobody is monitored on Clomid in your area. If that's the case, I wouldn't take the drug.
Started fertility treatments 11/2010
Ovarian dysfunction, LPD, male factor
6 failed medicated IUI's
Pregnant 5/2011 - Miscarriage at 6 weeks due to triploidy
Decided to adopt - 6/2012
SURPRISE! Pregnant without intervention - 7/2012
Sweet Baby James Born 3/2013
Decided to be "One and Done"
....OR NOT.
Pregnant 12/2018 despite birth control pills
Here we go again...
Due 8/26/19!
I called my Ob/Gyn today too...for the exact same reason! I am on my 4th cycle of Clomid (unmonitored) and this board made me realize I need to be monitored!!!
Good luck with the RE!!
I hate when you get a response like this from Dr.'s.
Sept '11-April '13 ~ Testing, failed multiple MFI treatments, saving & TONS of praying
January 2014 ~ IVF/ICSI & PGS ~ no response to stims ~ converted to IUI ~ BFN
February 2014 ~ On to donor embyros ~ 5 blasts!!!
March 2014 ~ FET #1 ~ Transferred 2 blasts ~ BFN
July 2014 ~ Kliman's mock cycle with endometrial function test
Sample too small for EFT, HE slide showed immature cells
New protocol planned, saving for another biopsy for EFT
January 2015 ~ Considering adoption options
April 2015 ~ Privately arranged adoption of planned pregnancy
DD#1 ~ Lillyana Violet Marie born 6/15/16, Finalized adoption 12/20/16
July 13, 2018 ~ BFP....WTF?!?!
7/16 Beta #1 ~ 466...7/18 Beta #2 ~ 1,077...7/23 Beta #3 ~ 5,291
7/23 US #1 ~ 1 gestational sac seen and yolk sac
7/30 US #2 and 1st OB appt ~ 1 perfectly round gestational sac, 1 perfect yolk sac and 1 teeny tiny heart beat seen!!!
I'm carrying & we are using anonymous donor sperm
In March 2012 diagnosed with Diminished Ovarian Reserve (AMH = O.67) & IVF recommended
FET (2 5dt embryos) on 11/5/12= BFP! Beta #1=58; Beta #2=98, Beta #3=373. First u/s on 11/28/12 = 1 sac with fetal pole & heartbeat! Next u/s = 12/12/12
TTC History
IVF#1 (Antagonist Protocol) Sept 2012 = BFN
10R; 8F; 4 Day5 GradeA embryos. Put back 2, froze 2.
12 IUIs (in 9 cycles) since March 2011:
6 unmedicated/unmonitored = BFNs
3 with Clomid/Trigger/monitoring/progesterone = BFNs
"The Spirit of God moves over the formless void, over the darkness and deep, over the surface of the waters. When there is nothing...God is still there."