I know that they will most likely bring the baby in to cuddle and nurse, but I know I'll probably be in there for a few hours and I'm sure they take the baby away to the nursery to bathe, monitor, etc. So what do you do in recovery? Is there a tv? Do you just lay there in boredom? Can you call people to announce the birth? How long should I expect to be in there? Sorry if this is a really dumb question.
Re: What is it like in the recovery room?
I was with my baby while in recovery. They helped me latch her on for the first time and I just laid there and stared at her with my DH. I can't remember how long I was in recovery for (I was still sort of loopy). Maybe an hour at the most? They never took the baby from me and I wouldn't have wanted them to. I think my husband texted our parents to let them know I was out and all was good, but we just focused that time on marvelling at our precious DD.
Once I was wheeled in to my regular room they did the bath, etc.
I had my cell phone with me and made a few announcements there; but my husband was the one who really called everyone. They gave me some meds because I got sick on the OR table and they made me really really sleepy; so I mostly slept while in there. I was there for almost 5 hours and didnt see Ana - other than right after she was born and before she was taken to the nursery - till after I got out of the temp room and moved to my actual recovery room (where I was there for 3.5 days).
I am sure every hospital is going to be different and everyone's reaction to the meds/recovery will be different too.
Then the nurses challenged me by asking me to wiggle my toes. I was not allowed out of recovery until then, so that kept me busy for a while. lol
They bring baby to the recovery room with mom but mine went to the NICU. I was only in there an hour, hardly time to get bored after just having a baby and surgery. The nurse stayed the whole time and chit chatted with DH. She kept checking my BP, temp, incision, fundus, etc. The NA came with me for a while because I was shaking really bad. He gave me some demerol and waited til I was better. I was pretty out of it so it went by fast even though I wasn't much of a participant! My DR and the NICU NP stopped in and the NP gave us all the details on DD and how she was coping. They were wheeling me back to my room before I knew it. If you have your baby with you it will go by even faster.
At my hospital, the baby and daddy stay with you the whole time. The recovery is a big room with curtains between patients and you have a nurse monitoring your vitals the whole 1 1/2 to 2 hours you are there. They do the bath everything right there with ya. With DS1 I got to see the bath and everything but with ds2 it took a little longer to stitch me up so I misse dit. My nurse both times almost immediately told me to do skin to skin with my son to help with bonding. I also tried to BF pretty quickly with both.
In our recovery you are not suppose to use your cell phones but dh texted everyone with the news while we wer ein there.
At the hospital I had ds at both him and mh were allowed with me the whole time....I was in recovery about an hour until I could wiggle my toes then they moved us back to our regular room....there they bathed him and did what needed to be done! I also was able to bf in recovery....we took this time to just take it all in and bond as a family of three....mh went to the waiting room to tell everyone after I was back in our room!
I would imagine every hospital does it a little differently!
This is what it was like for me:
In the OR, they took DS out and DH went with him while they stitched me up (about 20 minutes). When they wheeled me in my 1hr recovery room, I was met by DH and DS. DS was already cleaned and wrapped up for me to hold.
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I had DD with me the entire time. My hospital doesn't even have a nursery. A nurse kept coming in to check my blood pressure, bleeding, clean me up, and see how the numbing was wearing off.
I think I was in recovery for 2-2.5hours
I was in recovery for a hour. My DH and LO were with me. They also allowed a few other family members to come back one at a time. My dad came back and our older DD came back.
My OB came to check on me and took some pics with the baby. It went by very quickly and like someone else said, I was drugged and barely knew the time was passing lol. The nurses were with me the entire time and asked me questions, took vitals, etc but until the middle of the night (LO was born at 3:30pm) I really have no recollection of what I did, felt, or said lol.
With my C/S I was alone for about an hour in a curtained off area outside the OR. Phones aren't allowed in my hospital until u f in ur actual room. I was so tired and I remember sleeping and crying.
The recovery room is the fuzziest part of my memory. I know I threw up a lot from the anesthesia. My DD had to go to the NICU so I kissed her goodbye in the operating room, and it was just me in recovery. DH was back and forth giving me updates on the baby, snapping pictures and taking them back to me in my bed. I took the opportunity to get some sleep, which was easy to do with all the pain meds. Really it flew by, I wouldn't worry about boredom. If LO is with you it might be different than it was for me.