I've been worried about the post BM, but no baby yet and my hemorrhoids are horrible. Good thing everyone just thinks I'm waddling. I really wish this could be a pre-labor sign, but pretty sure it's not. This makes me worry even more about issues I'll have post baby (I also have IBS which tends to cause a lot of diarrhea and constipation). I was hoping to talk DH into having sex with hopes of helping move things along, but now I don't think I can do it either. DH is freaked out about having sex so "close" to her.
I'm using Witch Hazel and Prep H Max Strength Cream (which is very difficult given I can barely reach my a$$), but is there anything else I can do? I plan to ask my doctor also on Monday.
Re: Ouch...please help (and vent)
Married 1/2/99.
TTC since 4/09.
Diagnosed PCOS. Diagnosed Hypothryoid 11/09.
SHG & SA normal. PCOS Research study started 5/10.
Clomid/Femara cycle #1 - 6/10 = BFN
Clomid/Femara cycle #2 - 7/10 = BFP #1 - Missed miscarriage 9/2/10
11/12 - BFP #2 - 11/22 - m/c
5/1/11 - BFP #3 - Pre-eclampsia, IUGR & bed rest from 32w. DD born via induction 1/4/12.
Started TTC 05.08
Me: Stage II endo, borderline high FSH
DH: perfect
1 lap, 5 IUIs = 4 BFNs and 1 c/p
2 IVFs, 2 FETs = 1 BFN, 1 c/p, 1 ectopic and finally a sticky BFP in May 2011!
1 FET in Aug 2013 = BFP!
Mineral oil works too. Doesn't taste the greatest but helps "grease" things up so they come out better. Papaya enzymes help and are available at the heath food store. Stool softeners were my friend after I had shoulder surgery and got stopped up due to the pain meds I was taking.
I have IBS and I'm lactose intolerant. If I need to go I can simply eat some ice cream and I'll be in the bathroom shortly there after. Coffee works even faster (it's a natural laxitive) for me. I can't remember the last time I had a cup of coffee... I think the reason why I don't have hemorrhoids is because of my IBS--it keeps me loose and regular so no straining for me.
I don't know what i'd do without those wipes!