Early signs of Autism?

Cgelske

So DH and I are meeting with a woman who works with ECI and we've been working on communication and developing his language skills. Today we had our 4th meeting with her and he's progressed. He is signing "more" now, also starting to open up to her more and play her games.

 

Butttttt....  She just had to bring up Autism and mental health and she seemed like she was a little worried about it. She said she didn't want to diagnose him with anything yet, just wants to work on correcting what we can but of course, I'm a parent and can't stop thinking or worrying about it.

 I think one of her main concerns was his not making eye contact.

I'm looking for comfort, and signs to look for, I've just begun my research. TIA ladies.

mjsweetgirl

The only way to truly know is to get an evaluation. We took DS to the Denver Children's Hospital and they did DS evaluation. I would just contact your pedi and see what they think and have them help you with finding the right resources. Speculation and worry will honestly get you no where. You can look up on google the m-chat which the evaluation we were able to send to Children's and that helped us get our appointment sooner. HTH.

Cgelske

How old was your DS when you got her evaluated? Thank you.

mjsweetgirl

He was just evaluated on Jan 6. We had started the process with EI and services for a speech delay in September of last year when he turned 2. It never hurts to get an evaluation of any kind if you suspect a delay or development problems. Its a long process and not for the faint of heart, but well worth the time to see a professional. The first step is just making a phone call.

snowiebride

My four year old was diagnosed with ASD at 2.5. I now have a 14 month old who I critique every day looking for signs so I know a decent amount about early signs.  I think one of the biggest indicators is lack of meaningful gestures, e.g., waving hello and good bye spontaneously.  Pretend play - e.g., putting a play phone up to ear and talking.  Taking care of a doll, etc.  And also babbling with "joint attention".

Pay attention to the signs.  Continue with the therapy.   I can say that whether your son is or isn't on the spectrum, there is a ton of mothers out there just like you who are willing to offer support.  My "autism mom" circle of friends are the most remarkable women I have ever met.  No matter what you and your family and your little boy will be fine. Stay strong.