2 under 2 - what is the hardest?

Jcraul

DH really wants another and as exciting as having more children is I am more reserved about this decision.  I fear that I will go nuts if I have 2 under 2.

What is the hardest thing about having 2 under 2?

Did you plan it this way?  How in the world fo you afford daycare?

If I decide I am up for the challenge I don't think I would want to concieve prior to DD's first birthday.

If there anything you wish you had known prior to deciding to have 2 under 2?

Thanks in advance ladies.  I appreciate your input.

finally2006

What is the hardest thing about having 2 under 2? Sleep deprivation in the beginning.Did you plan it this way?  How in the world fo you afford daycare? I stay at home- had too but dont regret itIf there anything you wish you had known prior to deciding to have 2 under 2? I wish I would have stressed less. It has been easier than I thought.

MamatoJackson

The hardest... sleep deprivation, sometimes no breaks during the day and when both kids are sick.

The rest is great.

I stay at home with the kids. 

kcisthebombdotcom

MamatoJackson:

The hardest... sleep deprivation, sometimes no breaks during the day and when both kids are sick.

The rest is great.

I stay at home with the kids. 

Pretty much this.

LDQAM516

Jcraul:

DH really wants another and as exciting as having more children is I am more reserved about this decision.  I fear that I will go nuts if I have 2 under 2.

What is the hardest thing about having 2 under 2?

Did you plan it this way?  How in the world fo you afford daycare?

If I decide I am up for the challenge I don't think I would want to concieve prior to DD's first birthday.

If there anything you wish you had known prior to deciding to have 2 under 2?

Thanks in advance ladies.  I appreciate your input.

Honestly, the beginning of having 2u2 is the easiest...in my opinion.  Granted they are more independent now...but the amount of fighting, whining, tantrums and stealing toys is about to drive me crazy!  Plus it doesn't help it is Winter and we are stuck indoors a lot.  Enjoy the beginning because that is when it will be the quietest around your house!

 

We did plan it this way...I stay at home with them so I have no idea what daycare costs would be.

 

Really, overall, it is not bad at all...as long as you have a lot of patience and can handle the fighting and whining...because like I said...the beginning is the easiest now that I look back on everything.  I think that is why Iam enjoying our new newborn so much...I know this will be the easiest stage in having three kiddos...good luck in your choice! 

bethalynn

What is the hardest thing about having 2 under 2? Sleep deprivation and timing. It was hard to care for a newborn and have my older one still be a  needy baby herself. There were many times when they both needed me at the same time. Bedtime was a nightmare but I do it alone half the time so it probably wouldn't be as bad if your husband is home for that part.

Did you plan it this way?  How in the world fo you afford daycare? We did not plan it this way but now they are 2 1/2 and 9 months and I love the spacing. I am a SAHM.

meleenae

Our second was a big surprise...so I have DS 16 mo and DD 2 months.  My husband is a stay at home dad now because his salary would have all gone to day care with the addition of DD.

 However it is wonderful.  DS loves his sister, and almost seems too young to be "jealous".  I am excited my kids will grow up close enough together to be playmates but will still be two years apart in school.  the hardest thing is when they both want you at the same time.  I feel badly sometimes that DD gets the shaft because she can't move yet...and so when DS has a pressing need often he wins.  It's a bit of a balancing act...but so worth it.

If you are both ready emotionally and financially (its not just day care it also diapers and wipes and formula - unless you EBF) I say it's totally worth it!