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cookie_queen

Alright guys, I need some advice.

CCRM finally got my results. They are okay with my OB's plan for just a hemo on consult during pregnancy. They are also okay with us cycling now. As in starting next week. I was convinced it was canceled because they had told me I needed a normal CBC before we could cycle. Now they just think this level is normal for me and are okay with it.

We've had a hell of a month. The puppy being sick and all the vet bills (she's still not 100%), the vacuum breaking which meant $500 for a dyson, the washing maching breaking so $700 for a new one, and the back and forth about my platelets.

My question is- would you cycle starting next week?

Reasons to go ahead: We have a solid plan in place for this cycle. Acu seems to be helping my lining. Money is all set to go. Meds are ready to go thanks to this wonderful community. Timing works in our lives in terms of appointments and potential pregnancy. And, dammit, I'm tired of waiting.

Reasons to not go ahead: All reasons above will wait a month. It might be good to try to let the stress level die down a bit. Our luck doesn't seem great right now (but it hasn't been great for awhile).

So brilliant ladies, what do you think?

theworms

I would just go ahead and cycle.  You never know what life will throw at you and it's hard to find a perfect, stress-free time to cycle. I think you have some solid reasons for moving forward.

I think it's time for your luck to change. 

mm29

I would go ahead and cycle.  You seem to be ready, IMHO stress will always be there, if it is not one thing it is another.

GL with your decision and I'm sending you lots of PPV's!

jessican08

theworms:

I would just go ahead and cycle.  You never know what life will throw at you and it's hard to find a perfect, stress-free time to cycle. I think you have some solid reasons for moving forward.

I think it's time for your luck to change. 

This exactly. I would go ahead now. GL in your decision, Hon.

STL34

I would probably go for out!  You never know what stress will be like in a month.  And, maybe this cycle is what you need to turn your luck around.  Good luck with whatever you decide!!

RFBsbride

I agree with all the PPs!  If you wait for the "right time" it will never happen. 

Go for it and good luck!!!

DeputiesWife

theworms:

I would just go ahead and cycle.  You never know what life will throw at you and it's hard to find a perfect, stress-free time to cycle. I think you have some solid reasons for moving forward.

I think it's time for your luck to change. 

all of this. And your meds will be on the way tomorrow  

mdluv21

I would just go for it - right now is a terrible time for us to, husband is still laid off, Charlie hospital stay (our dog)  was over $4k, i have all kinds of new blood clotting issues, natural killers cells are out of control, etc.

I just don't think there is ever a good time and like you, I am just so tired of waiting.

GL with whatever you decide - maybe our transfers will be close after all.

njohnson1972

Worms summed it up pretty good.  I would move forward. 

Plus, if you start now, your baby would be due in October/November.  Put it off, then it would be due in December and that is not the easiest month for birthday parties.  This is how I base my decisions (not really, but it is something I think about ).

BeeBee08

I definitely would go ahead now.  Waiting for a the "right time" is not usually a great idea.  No timing is ever perfect.

Good Luck!  So very excited for you!

vanessagorc

I think there is never a perfect time...so i would just go ahead

Anasara

Go for it!  IFVs are so used to stress it seems so will waiting another cycle really make a difference?  I mean, when is life ever NOT stressful?  I wish you nothing but the best!

cutebride73

I agree - you should go for it!  You never know what next month will be like.  Hopefully it's your time for things to go right!!

SweetDahlia

I would go for it. Things can only get better hopefully.

cbubbles2

I'd go for it! I hope everything goes smoothly and Your luck turns around!

Jackie2200

Go ahead and do it, Cookie.  You deserve some hope and a chance!  Stress will always be there but if you're doing something about, some stress may actually go away!  I'm rooting for you!