WTF App and CD1 (sorry a little long)

CTumelty

Do today we had our follow up app after having our 2nd (technically 3rd) misscarriage.

A little background: our issue is because my tubes have "pockets" in them. What they think is happening is that my egg gets stuck in my tubes because I do O on my own. We have done 3 IUI's the first one resulted in a CP. We moved on to IVF and PG the first time but misscarried. Had a DNC and found out the baby had a chromosal defect that would never have survived.So we moved to FET and PG again but miscarried again. We said no to a DNC because it was just 4 months after the first misscarriage.

So here we are agian on CD1 and starting BCP again. DH and I said from the begining that if we had more than 1 misscarriage that we would transfer 2 snow babies. We talked with the RE and she thinks that all of what has happened is just plain bad luck. We are looking to ET at the end of Feb (seems so far away). I am scared that this will never work for us and also scared that it will work and we would have 2 or possibly more. DH is freaking out about having multiples, he is a numbers guy and wondering how we are going to afford it not to mention survive taking care of 2 babies. We are so very lucky that we have a great support system and he is now calmed down and is on board to do 2.

So here we are on CD1 and starting all over again and strangely looking forward to all the craziness again!

 I am hoping that 2012 is going to be good year for all of us. I am sending T&P to all of you that need it. Sticky baby dust to those that are in the 2WW!

 Thanks for reading this!  

ukcats27

I'm so sorry about all of your losses.  I hope your FET cycle works!  Good luck!

Jezebell26

I am so happy you are able to move forward. It is great to feel that excitement again! I am so sorry about your losses and I really hope your bad luck streak is over! 2012 is going to be a great year and I hope this is what brings you your take home baby!!! Best of luck!

hootie123

I'm glad you have a plan worked out.  If I were in your position - I would definitely transfer two.  I'm struggling with this as well - and not sure if we should do more than two considering I've never had any stick. 

The end of Feb will be here before you even know it!  (I'm partially saying that b/c I'm cycling again in Feb too!)  

Here's to sticky babies in 2012!!  

MsGMChick

I'm so sorry about your losses. Since you've had 2 losses with ivf can you do a rlp as well? Those are expensive cycles to not know everything involved. Good luck next month!!

siple1am

I am sorry about all of your losses! Good luck!

CTumelty

MsGMChick:

I'm so sorry about your losses. Since you've had 2 losses with ivf can you do a rlp as well? Those are expensive cycles to not know everything involved. Good luck next month!!

 

We thought about doing that but it's so expensive.

MsGMChick

CTumelty:

MsGMChick:

I'm so sorry about your losses. Since you've had 2 losses with ivf can you do a rlp as well? Those are expensive cycles to not know everything involved. Good luck next month!!

 

We thought about doing that but it's so expensive.

Can they code it as mc related so insurance will cover it?

CTumelty

MsGMChick:

CTumelty:

MsGMChick:

I'm so sorry about your losses. Since you've had 2 losses with ivf can you do a rlp as well? Those are expensive cycles to not know everything involved. Good luck next month!!

 

We thought about doing that but it's so expensive.

Can they code it as mc related so insurance will cover it?

 I didn't even think about that. I will ask them the tomorrow. Thanks!

zookbride

I'm so sorry for all you guys have been through this past year. I hope 2012 is a lot nicer to all of us too. Good luck with jumping back into the game.