Late Term and Child Loss

Next month would have been his first birthday

I am so sad that this day will never come for us. I will never get too see my baby boy turn 1 or 2 or 3 for that matter. I only sit & dream of what he would be doing at this very moment. I look at his older brother's baby pictures & think would my little man look like this now? I know february 16th will be such an emotional day but I have planned to do a little birthday memorial. I'm gonna buy confetti balloons for  his grave a 1st birthday hat Write a letter send it off with some balloons & i'm even gonna get a cake. I need to at least celebrate his birth he my have passed in 3 months of his life but he made a huge impact in my life & I will forever celebrate his birth.

Celebrating my little angel born Feb 16th 2011 died unexpectently on May 24th 2011 Rip Caiden J. Mendez I Love you so much my forever young baby boy!

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  • Thankyou so much. I am so happy to have found this board, It looks like a great support system. I think it will be a great way to keep his memory alive & celebrate him. :)
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  • I am so so sorry for your loss. Welcome to the board.
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  • I am so sorry that you lost Caiden so soon.  ((Big HUGS)) and happy birthday to your sweet boy!



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  • I am so sorry for your loss. Welcome to the board. The ladies here are amazing. I think what you are planning to do sounds perfect. Big hugs.
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  • I am sorry for your loss, but I am glad that you found us.  There are some amazing women here.

    Your birthday celebration sounds beautiful!  We did something similar for our Logan this past October.  We carved a pumpkin with his name and stars, and my mom bought a cupcake.  We were actually out of town for his 1st birthday so we took birthday balloons to the cemetery before we left.  This will be a tradition we do every year, and since his birthday is 4 days before Halloween, carving a pumpkin for him is something we can do with our furture children every year.  Sending you huge *hugs*  Your little one will be celebrating among the stars with you.

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  • I am so sorry that precious Caiden was taken from your arms far too soon.  I hope the women here can bring you some comfort. 

    Birthday's are incredibly difficult, I think you are honoring him well.  Hugs to you and your family.

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  • I am so very sorry for the loss of your son Caiden.Welcome to the board.((Hugs))

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  • I am sorry for your loss. I hope the memorial you have planned will bring you some comfort.
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  • I am so sorry for your loss.
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  • My sons 2nd birthday is on Feb 1st. I'm taking the day off of work and my mom and I are going to make the day be about him. We are going to have funfetti pancakes, take a picnic lunch out to the cemetery (and eat in our car because it will be freezing) and then having a birthday dinner for him. We are always going to celebrate his birthday.
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  • Thankyou so much for all the support ladiesSmile. I am really happy I found this group so much support & love. Thanks for sharing your birthday traditions with me. I think its so wonderful that we can keep there memory alive & im happy I found people who can understand how I feel. I was feeling a little lonely on the friend side but this definetly cheered me up to see all the support & feedback. Have a blessed day ladies & bless all your little angels.
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