For hypothetical DD#2, we like Celia Kay (many of you voted on middle names for me last week - thank you!). The problem is that 'Kay' rhymes with our last name.
Would Celia Kay James be out of the question? Especially if 'Kay' is quite significant?
James is not exactly our last name, but it is very close.
BFP #1 6/3/10 | EDD 2/5/11 | Noelle born 1/28/11
BFP #2 12/20/11 | EDD 8/24/12 | Natural M/C 12/22/11
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Re: Middle name rhyming with last name?
This.
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BFP#2 DS born at 40+2 on 8/14/12 BFP#3 DD Born at 39+3 on 5/13/14
This.
God, I hate this line of thinking. It's so patriarchal. Women's names don't matter!
Anyway, yes, I think it's odd. I'm sure there a ton of middle names that don't rhyme with your last name.
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...She never said anything about women's names not mattering, she said that she might marry and take her husband's last name. MIGHT.
Also, the baby's current last name (most likely) isn't even a "woman's" last name, it's her father's so...
The point is that if it was a boy, NO ONE would say, "well, he might change his name when he's older, anyway." Because boys aren't taught to think that way. They are taught to identify with their names. Girls aren't.
And once they give the last name to the baby, it's HER name. It's not on loan from anyone. It's like saying she's the property of her parents or her husband. No, it's her name. More anti-feminist BS.
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