I am really hoping to skip the epidural this time. I would not have gotten it with DS if I had known it would only be a 9 hour labor. I got the epidural after 8 hours when the doctor said it would be at least 5 more hours.
I would like to take a class but now I'm coming into the 3rd tri and I haven't been able to convince DH to come with me. We did lamaze when I was pregnant with DD and he said that was enough for him;)
Anyone have any books or DVDs that you found helpful?
Re: resources for natural labor? Books or DVD recs?
While I was ulitmately induced, and screaming for an epidural 15 minutes after the pitocin drip started.... I read these books, and thought they were good:
The Thinking Woman's Guide to a Better Birth (Henci Goer)
Ina May's Guide to Natural Childbirth
The Birth Partner (Peggy Simkin)
Birthing from Within
There are probably others, since this was like 3 or 4 years ago... but, these seem to be sort of "classics," with frequent mention on the Bump and elsewhere. Personally, I think my favorite was probably the Henci Goer book - but, it's not reall about the "how to" of natural birth... it kind of preps you for the types of interventions that are out there.
As I said, I ultimately didn't go natural. I don't think I had the support I needed (either from the Doc or DH...) I kind of wish that we would have done a Bradley class (or similar) together beforehand.
thanks!
Soontobe- check your PMs! also, check out the FAQ link in my siggie...there is a post about great books to prepare for unmedicated labor.