I was wondering if you ladies were given a reason why you went into labor early. My doctor never gave me an answer and over a year later, it still really bothers me that I don't know what went wrong. I delivered at 34 weeks and was told by my doctor that I just might have a "sensitive, irritable uterus" and also that "these things just happen sometimes". I did have a slight UTI prior to my labor but my doctor said that they'd knocked that out with antibiotics and that it would be very unusual for a UTI to cause premature labor. What were you told?
Re: Reason for premature birth?
I wasn't given an answer. All I knew was that it wasn't an infection. Now that I'm pregnant again with a new doctor (4 years later), she thinks it was just spontaneous preterm labor, for which there is no known cause.
At the time, I was told it's hard to figure out sometimes with the first and might be easier to figure out if it happens again, likely because they're watching more carefully.
and after 82 days in the NICU, our little girl is home!
This exactly.
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It would be scary to not know. My reason was pretty clear too. I had a placenta abruption.
Without knowing the reason, they will watch you much closer if you were to get pg again. I know that's little comfort, but it's at least something.
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I had no reason either. I had a brief BP spike 2 days before I was admitted for PTL. Looking back, I wish I had demanded an internal....maybe if I knew I was dilating and went on bedrest I could have bought more time. Because of IVF, I had monthly monitoring with an MFM, including cervical length checks through 27 weeks....everything always looked great (aside from my large subchorionic hematoma, but that resolved by 24 weeks).
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I am just like you! My water broke at 34 weeks for "no identifiable reason."
Butttt, my husband and I have our suspicions.
Just before I went into preterm labor, we had vigorous sex. This precipitated bleeding, which worried me because it wasn't the usual light spotting. We went to the hospital to check out the bleeding (the docs weren't too worried because they kept telling us on the phone that sex can cause bleeding) and found out I was pretty far dilated having contractions. Soon after my water broke.
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My son was born on a Tuesday. The previous Friday, I called my OB to ask what the symptoms would be if my water were leaking. She said that I didn't need to worry - I'd have fluid running down my leg. I wish I would have gone in to have it checked, but hindsight it 20/20.
The OB who delivered me suspected that I may have IC, but my cervix was measuring great at the anatomy scan. The NICU thought it may have had something to do with my low-lying placenta (I had a low-lying placenta at the anatomy scan, and I was due for another check of it the Thursday after my son was born).
Basically, we have no idea why he came so early.
I don't know if I would even try again!
I was told "these things happen" but was never given any specifics. It terrifies me that this could possibly happen again.
I do wonder if the stress of my job was a factor. I teach kindergarten and was not given an aide this year.
Haven't read whole thread, but wanted to chime in...
At 26 weeks, I had 2 to 5 minute contractions for 3 days before I finally went into labor and delivery (I thought I was just having bad RLP cramps) and they prepped me for labor, though thankfully I wasn't dilated. Magnesium over night made them go away and I had a few lingering contractions that week.. got put on bed rest and then modified bed rest every since.
Dilated to 1/2 cm at 34 weeks.
Still pregnant, thankfully!
Anyways, they have no clue as to why this happened. Something about an irritable uterus. It would be nice to know what caused the contractions, so I could avoid them in the future when we decide to have baby #2 - I'm not a super active person, so it's amazing to me that a bit of cleaning or whatever could have triggered them! I don't do drugs or drink or anything risky like that, though I never gave up caffeine (some days probably drank over min. limit, even).
It's weird that the problem hasn't returned yet, even as baby has gotten bigger, because I've sort of been doing normal activity (it's naturally not comfortable to be on feet or sit in certain positions at this point in time, so I'm naturally doing the modified bed rest thing!).
Around 33 weeks I started to experience symptoms of preterm labor. I thought I was having braxton hicks and just brushed it aside as just being pregnant.
I had a very easy pregnancy and ran up until 31 weeks.
I went to my first lamaze class and they discussed PTL and I was thinking, wow that sounds just like me. I asked a few questions in class and then brushed it aside.
A few days later I was feeling really crummy and my mom convinced me to call the Dr. I made an appointment for the following day and when I went in I was 3 cm dilated and 90% effaced. The emotions that came over me are ones that probably only you ladies can related to.
I was told to go to the hospital and they would call and let them know I was coming. My husband wasn't with me so I called him and had him meet me at the hospital.
I won't go into a ton of details, but I was give the two doses of steroid shots, kept for 48 hours and then released on bed rest. I went back to the hospital within 12 hours with pain, given more medicine sent home and followed up with my doc on Tuesday for my 34 week appointment.
I went to my 34 week appointment and had dilated to 5 and sent back to the hospital. The following day I had progressed to 9.5 and was told it was time to have this baby. They broke my water and baby was born about 7.5 hours later.
So really my body was just ready, I was told in the future we'll need to do shots of progesterone on a weekly basis to prevent PTL.