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NonCP - Your TTC status

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Are you actively TTC, planning to TTC sometime soon, TTA for now, done having kids, pregnant, etc.????
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  • EmKo0210EmKo0210 member
    DH and I decided awhile ago that we would start TTC again in summer/fall of this year.  Now that it's getting closer, we're both getting antsy.  We might move it up and start trying in May.  I have my annual exam on May 10th, and I want to talk to my Dr. about TTC before we start.  This makes me so excited and terrified at the same time :)
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  • KCKSarahKCKSarah member
    TTA.  Won't try for another 2 years or so.
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  • jen629jen629
    imageEmKo0210:
    DH and I decided awhile ago that we would start TTC again in summer/fall of this year.  Now that it's getting closer, we're both getting antsy.  We might move it up and start trying in May.  I have my annual exam on May 10th, and I want to talk to my Dr. about TTC before we start.  This makes me so excited and terrified at the same time :)
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  • jen629jen629

    here is my status :P

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  • HElizabethDUHElizabethDU
    We are TTC.  Ideally I would like to get pregnant in June or July.  But would be thrilled anytime now :)
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  • EmKo0210EmKo0210 member
    imagejen629:

    here is my status :P

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    love it!

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  • D&D4Ever7D&D4Ever7

    Eventhough we plan on trying for a second baby, I am not ready yet.  I waited long time for DS and really want to take my time and just enjoy spending time with him and watch him grow. Right now, I am not even close to thinking about another baby.  DH and I don't even have time to be intimate :-(.  I don't want to wait too long so we will probably be TTC in 2013.

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  • xleslieraexxleslieraex
    We were planning to be done. I have an IUD now, we (DH and I) are going to discuss removing it June/ July to try again. We are avoiding for now.
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  • hopingwaitinghopingwaiting
    My status is kinda obvious :)
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  • damabo80damabo80 member
    For now, TTC the free way (TI, OPKs, etc). We'll go back to the RE after I wean (maybe spring/summerish?)


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    BFP #2 via IUI ~ m/c
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    BFP #4 via the natural (free!) way ~ E (8lb 11oz) 9/13/12
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  • martinimommamartinimomma member
    I went into my pregnancy thinking we'd be one and done. While pregnant we started thinking that maybe 2 could work...but given how DS has worn me down, I really don't think I could do it again if we were lucky enough to conceive again. So we're done.

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  • thewayiamthewayiam
    Though I just gave birth, we are going to start trying again in Sept. we are concerned about my age, more losses and more fertility issues. 
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  • WildlandwifeWildlandwife
    I'm KU right now. ;). We may be done after this one, but I'm keeping my mind open right now.
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  • BrosisBrosis
    KU'd w/our 2nd & probably last.
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  • Amanda78Amanda78 member

    imagexleslieraex:
    We were planning to be done. I have an IUD now, we (DH and I) are going to discuss removing it June/ July to try again. We are avoiding for now.

    Love this!!

    I am a HELL NO! TTA  for now. I think we'll try again, but am not convinced and no time soon 

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  • Leah&ColeLeah&Cole member

    imagehopingwaiting:
    My status is kinda obvious :)

    Ditto :-) 

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  • JaimieLeeJaimieLee
    Between a rock and a hard place.
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  • luvmyducksluvmyducks member
    TTA for now. But only for BFing purposes and I want to give Kellen a lot of attention. We will probably TTC in about a year. Maybe a little less :)
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  • rock-ellerock-elle member

    Split b/t "one & done" and "because my aging azz ain't getting younger-we better hurry up and decide"

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  • ksulliksulli member

    Jen629 you look adorable!

    We are TTA but discussing when to TTC again. I like a 2y age gap, which means TTC this Fall. The thought of being KTFU again so soon makes my body hurt though. We'll probably start then though, and expect it to take some time. If I wind up a fh this time it would only take until the pee dried to get excited.  

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  • jen629jen629
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    Jen629 you look adorable!

    We are TTA but discussing when to TTC again. I like a 2y age gap, which means TTC this Fall. The thought of being KTFU again so soon makes my body hurt though. We'll probably start then though, and expect it to take some time. If I wind up a fh this time it would only take until the pee dried to get excited.  

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  • RJHarmonRJHarmon member
    Not TTC until summer 2013...but wish I could.  Having SERIOUS baby fever already, but the wallet won't let us.

    1st pregnancy: m/c began 1/12/09 d&c 1/13/09 8wks. Baby stopped growing at about 6wks.

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  • olivia_eveolivia_eve
    Done done done done done done. I love my babies, but I don't want to be pregnant ever again. And since I had DD at 40w5d and DS at 42w1d, I joke that I would be pregnant for 44 weeks with my third and I want no part of that!
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  • Ernie52408Ernie52408 member
    TTA like the plague. Maybe TTC again next year...or the year after that. I am in no hurry.
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  • TinaL99TinaL99 member
    Permanently done!  I had my tubes tied during my RCS in September.  We're completely content and happy with our 2 little girls.
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  • sarahandeddiejune212008sarahandeddiejune212008 member
    Currently pg - but we weren't actively ttc and we were doing a really bad job at tta.
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  • SonadoraSonadora member

    If I could use additional forms of bc to ensure I don't get pg I would. I have zero interest in getting pg again and it would ruin us financially given the cost of childcare around here and I cannot be a SAHM. I just cannot do it, mentally 5.5 months of maternity leave almost did me in. Plus, I'm the breadwinner, so it's not even feasible.

    H would like to TTC again within the next yearish. I am happy with B and feel my family is complete.

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  • GummybearGummybear

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    Permanently done!  I had my tubes tied during my RCS in September.  We're completely content and happy with our 2 little girls.

    THIS!!! EXACTLY. Two and through and LOVING every second of it. 

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  • kathymariekathymarie member
    TTA until maybe this summer. We'll discuss it then. I
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  • pepomntpatpepomntpat member
    TTA for now.
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  • leneae10leneae10 member

    imagedamabo80:
    For now, TTC the free way (TI, OPKs, etc). We'll go back to the RE after I wean (maybe spring/summerish?)

    This minus the weaning part.  We're doing it the old fashioned way with nonexistant cycles.  Probably hit up the RE and start at the beginning with Clomid again (it won't work though) early this year then do our Follistim/IUI stuff later spring/summer.

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  • pennynjonpennynjon
    TTA for at least a year. I feel like I was pregnant for two straight years. So I am enjoying my time with DS and not worrying about pregnancy.
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    We are "Four and no More"
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  • Aubs0009Aubs0009 member
    imagejen629:

    here is my status :P

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     Ayla 10/02/2013, 10:14 am, 6lbs 14oz, 19.25 inches long
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  • Aubs0009Aubs0009 member
    We are planning to start trying again this fall.

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     Ayla 10/02/2013, 10:14 am, 6lbs 14oz, 19.25 inches long
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  • ShemicoShemico member

    imageJaimieLee:
    Between a rock and a hard place.

    *hugs*

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  • ShemicoShemico member

    We're 2 and done. DH got the snip in sept.

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  • HeatherPB1020HeatherPB1020 member
    In the Fall when Jack is 1 1/2 we will be casually TTC.... just not TTA.. and then when Jack is 2 we will for reals TTC.   That is the plan as of now... but yesterday my 2 BFFs told me they were PG... so I am feeling the itch a bit.
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  • ColleenS629ColleenS629 member
    We aren't sure if we're done or if we will TTC again. If we do, it won't be for at least a year and a half, I'm sure.
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    Dx: MFI- 3% morph
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    IVF with ICSI= BFP! EDD 11/25/11
    3/18- Beta #1 452! 3/20- Beta #2 1,026!! 3/27- First u/s- TWINS!
    Our twin boys arrived at 36w5d due to IUGR and a growth discordance

    FET: Medicated FET moved up to 5/23 due to ovulation
    Transferred a 6BB hatched blastocyst- genetically normal female embryo
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  • samm1983samm1983 member
    Currently TTA.  Haven't really discussed more. We would LOVE to have more, but we are currently very happy with this miracle.  When I found out I was KU for the 7th time (this baby), we thought it would be our last pregnancy.......BUT it worked and I am holding this little guy in my arms right now.....so we will have to think more about it.
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    APS, hetero factor v leiden & MTHFR
    bfp #1 - 12.11.07, edd 8.14.08, mm/c 1.21.08 (10w4d)
    bfp #2 - 4.4.08, edd 12.3.08, mm/c 5.14.08 (11w)
    bfp #3 - 8.3.08, edd 4.15.09, mm/c 9.17.08 (10w)
    bfp #4 - 1.15.09, edd 9.26.09, mm/c 2.16.09 (8w2d)
    bfp #5 - 6.16.09, edd 2.25.10, mm/c 7.23.09 (9w)
    bfp #6 - 8.12.10, edd 4.27.11, mm/c 9.16.10 (8w1d)
    one more try -> bfp #7 - 2.11, our miracle baby boy arrived 10.11
    ttc again -> bfp #8 - 5.3.13, edd 1.13.14, mm/c 5.30.13 (7w3d)
    bfp #9 - 9.23.13, our miracle baby girl arrived 5.29.14

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