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Third time...

LV1979LV1979 member
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Is not the charm Crying That would be another BFN for this cycle.  We are both pretty bummed, this time actually made me cry.  Time to switch baby ovens but we are taking a couple months off to regroup emotionally and financially.  We are swapping out two years sooner than we planned but DW is out of time off for this school year, I am healthier than I have ever been and we both do not want to stop trying.  So the game plan is me trying in March, April, May, and her taking over again for June and July.  Hopefully sometime in those 5 months one of us will get knocked up. 
We had three BFN in the Fall of 2011. It is back on to some baby making come June. Swim little fellas, SWIM!!!!
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  • leapgirl8leapgirl8 member
    This is not what I was hoping to find inside this post :( I'm sorry you got hit with another BFN. But I have high hopes for your new oven! I hear it's state of the art!
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  • 2brides2brides member
    I am sorry. Left Hug
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  • seattlekariseattlekari
    I'm sorry LV...(((hugs)))
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  • thiswillbethiswillbe
    Argh. I was so hopeful, seeing your title... Best wishes for March!
    married 03/08/08 -- ttc with PCOS (dx 2005) & DS
    IUI #3 gave us the best 2nd anniv. gift ever: 2 babies! (born 03/09/10)
    Peanut and Little Man are getting so big! 2 years old already!
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  • lnelson20lnelson20
    so sorry, hope this spring is your time!
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  • MommieBearMommieBear
    I too am very sorry to see a huge neg sign there! I was hoping for that +!   Hang in there and keep those fingers crossed for 2012! 
    Mom to a wonderful kiddo. Wishing/Hoping for a second LO.
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  • mindingpandqmindingpandq
    :( I feel for you... this process is frustrating. Try to keep believing in it and it will happen. The best advice I have gotten that has actually soothed me has been frommy accupuncturist. She says that there is a little soul out there waiting to find you and when the time is right it will be. Hang in there and be extra nice to yourself.
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  • 2moms2twins2moms2twins

    Darn it LV i am sorry to hear this ... but good luck for March and we did lots of regrouping.  Melanie and I look back now and say that the TTC WILD RIDE made us that much closer and we are at our best now and I think TTC has done that for us as it has tested us on so many levels and no matter what LOVE each other - it will happen how and when its supposed to !

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  • PrincessLeashPrincessLeash
    So sorry to hear that :(
    Me(30) & DW(33) Married August 19, 2011. Mommies to a beautiful pooch. TTC#1~IUI#1-Nov 30/12=BFN IUI#2-Dec 30/12 http://mommyandmum.blogspot.ca/
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  • ball.and.chainball.and.chain member

    Aw man, I was really pulling for you two this time.  Regrouping is good though -- there have been a couple of months we've taken off and even though I've been impatient to move forward, it's been good for us emotionally.

    Hang in there and good luck this spring!

    Married my wife 8/2007 ~ TTC #1 since 7/2011
    9 IUIs = 9 BFNs
    IVF October 2012: 22 eggs retrieved, 17 fertilized, 5 frozen
    ET #1: 1 blast = BFP; Blighted ovum discovered at 7w5d; D&E
    FET #1: 1 blast = BFP; Missed m/c discovered at 9w5d; D&E
    Karyotyping: normal ~ RPL Testing: normal ~ Hysteroscopy: normal
    FET #2: 1 blast transferred 10/25; BFP 10/31!
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  • KershnicKershnic member
    Aw, man, that sucks.  :(  Enjoy your regrouping time and you'll be refreshed and ready to make babies.  It's ssooo frustrating that this can take so long even if everything seems like it should be right.  
    TTC with PCOS since July 2011.
    IVF Oct/Nov 2012
    Beta #1 = 77, Beta #2 = 190, Beta #3 = 1044
    Cautiously optimistic.
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  • jennandmel1024jennandmel1024
    So sorry :(
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  • Duchess1Duchess1 member
    I am so sorry.
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  • hlkehlke member
    I was SO hoping for you guys.  It's good you have a plan, but I'm sure the BFN still sucks just as bad.
    Same sex couple TTC with donor sperm.  I am 35 and carrying.  Endometriosis and DOR.
    AMH 0.5, AFC 5-8, FSH 7ish

    IVF #1 - antagonist.  Empty follicle syndrome.  1 retrieved, 0 fertilized.
    IVF #2 - antagonist.  Ovulated early.  3 retrieved, 2 fertilized, 0 blasts
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