So for like a week I've been telling my DH that the furnace was blowing coolish air- and he kept saying, "it doesnt feel cool to me"..well last night it was blowing COLD air- and you know what I'm doing today? waiting for the heating and cooling guy and freezing my a$$ off..the boys are bundled up and I keep telling Lorenzo we're playing eskimo so he keeps on his layers...would have been nice to have had this taken care of when it was 50 out and not 30...
I could leave- but then I would miss the guy...
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and I have another one- I just started doing some part time work/ direct selling and Dh said, "however I can help- let me know"- well last night I was watching some informational videos and he was also on his laptop when X started to cry- I was like can you do this bottle? and he was like, "I'm working.." and I was like, "what do you think I'm doing-knitting a sweater?"
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Usually DH watches the kids Tues 4-8 while I go to work. Well, his brother needed him for a business meeting so it was a huge scramble to try to find us a babysitter- then the mtg was cancelled and he came home anyways.
Now I'm feeling like maybe quitting my job. I know it's a whopping 4 hours but I just hate finding babysitters if something comes up with DH. I think after 3 years I might be "over" my job. If we figure in the "cost" of DH being home with them vs what I make it's like $4. He always begs me to quit and last night when I offered he was like, "nooo no, I was always joking" but now I kinda have that idea stuck in my head... Blech this turned into a lame ramble
The other night I had this really lame dream that both babies were here and the new baby was a carbon copy of Charlotte, like the exact age and size she is now so we had Charlotte and Other Charlotte, and I didn't know which one was the really Charlotte and I kept forgetting to bring one places with us, or change ones diaper or feed one and such and at one point, one was sleeping in the kitchen cupboard. It just really freaked me out and I felt horrible when I woke up.
Also, DH woke up at 4:45 this morning to go to work and usually I can fall back asleep but my mind started going a mile a minute thinking about all different things and now I am pooped. I almost never have trouble sleeping, so I find this extra irritating, because being 3rd tri is already affecting my rest, I don't need my mind psyching me out too.
DH has been miserable this week. Fighting with me over nothing. I know it has to do with his deployment next month, but i cant live like this for that long. Last night I sat and cried while rocking DD to sleep. Then this morning my niece/babysitter left for 10 days (she lives with me) & when she gets back shes moving to WV...we both cried. All this and my morning starting with vomit. Can this week be over already, please?
Yes, I know that we all are guilty of this at times but One of my friends is always telling me things like:
Don't buy old house it is too much work!
If I worked full time and just had 2 kids my house would always be spotless!
I can't believe you let your kids do that...I would never...
Then: I cannot believe you will not pick up your baby when they are crying...He needs you.
Now: See what you did, by holding baby all the time you created a Monster.
You worry to much.
It is annoying. My friend has more kids then I do and is a SAHM. We are super close
% years after buying our house she purcahsed a similar one with more work.
also , she seeems to forget that I have only seen her house 100's of times In the past 10 years I have only seen it clean a few time each year. No matter how bad my home was it was never anywhere near as messy as hers was. Ever. My messy house is equal to her clean house.
She lets her kids do many things that she tells me my children should not do...
Goes to the ER or emergent care at least once a month with her kids.
I want to whine, because I am normally really awesome at it ... but since our BFP (and even more since the BFP on the blood pg test @ my doc's office) I am just too happy for much whining! I do wish my breasts would stop feeling like they're on fire - especially the left; odd that it's only the one?? That is pretty freakin annoying.
Mia! She is a morning napper. Unless we have something planned in the afternoon and then she refuses to nap until it is time to go. It is driving me CRAZY!
There are some good whines in this post. I hope you get heat soon Abba!
My neighbor is really noisy. Teenager who rides 4-wheelers in the summer and his snowmobile in the winter. They have a small yard and he makes sure to rev the engines over and over to be the loudest person ever...around and around the house. Today he is home. At 1 on a Wed and I hear the snowmobiles. Really? This is my quiet time. And who picks their kid up from school to let them play with their snowmobiles? Oh, and we only have a dusting of snow. TIme to MOVE!
First, I'm getting another cold after just getting rid of the last one less than a week ago:(
Second, I wish people wouldn't decide to work with special education kids and hate kids. It's really sad. I understand burned out, THAT I get. But this is really past that and they say mean and hurtful things to the kids. I always end up looking like the bad person b/c these kids have no voice and I'll speak up for them and defend them. But if the kids are treated like they deserve to be treated, I really don't care. But it makes for a lousy workplace:(
Abba: Hoping you have heat soon. That's awful.
TTC since 6/2003. m/c 9/14/03 8 weeks, 5 chemical pregnancies, mmc 6/04 12 weeks, Michael born sleeping 5/25/05 at 22weeks always our angel, fought ovarian cancer and won, m/c 4/06 5.2 weeks and 7/07 6.6 weeks,Our Miracle baby girl born 4/8/10,mc 12/18/11 at 5.3 weeks, BFP 10/26/12 dating u/s on 11/8/12 showing a strong heartbeat!EDD July 4,2013. RCS on 6/27. Baby boy in NICU for 8 long and scary days before he was able to come home. We are now a happy family of 4
DH just left to go play some stupid card game called Magic. If you watch Big Bang Theory, its a game that they would play. I personally think he is too old to be playing it. Now I am stuck home by myself, Abby is here but she will be in bed soon. I hoping there is something good on tv tonight.
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Re: **Whine Wednesday**
So for like a week I've been telling my DH that the furnace was blowing coolish air- and he kept saying, "it doesnt feel cool to me"..well last night it was blowing COLD air- and you know what I'm doing today? waiting for the heating and cooling guy and freezing my a$$ off..the boys are bundled up and I keep telling Lorenzo we're playing eskimo so he keeps on his layers...would have been nice to have had this taken care of when it was 50 out and not 30...
I could leave- but then I would miss the guy...
and I have another one- I just started doing some part time work/ direct selling and Dh said, "however I can help- let me know"- well last night I was watching some informational videos and he was also on his laptop when X started to cry- I was like can you do this bottle? and he was like, "I'm working.." and I was like, "what do you think I'm doing-knitting a sweater?"
Usually DH watches the kids Tues 4-8 while I go to work. Well, his brother needed him for a business meeting so it was a huge scramble to try to find us a babysitter- then the mtg was cancelled and he came home anyways.
Now I'm feeling like maybe quitting my job. I know it's a whopping 4 hours but I just hate finding babysitters if something comes up with DH. I think after 3 years I might be "over" my job. If we figure in the "cost" of DH being home with them vs what I make it's like $4. He always begs me to quit and last night when I offered he was like, "nooo no, I was always joking" but now I kinda have that idea stuck in my head... Blech this turned into a lame ramble
The other night I had this really lame dream that both babies were here and the new baby was a carbon copy of Charlotte, like the exact age and size she is now so we had Charlotte and Other Charlotte, and I didn't know which one was the really Charlotte and I kept forgetting to bring one places with us, or change ones diaper or feed one and such and at one point, one was sleeping in the kitchen cupboard. It just really freaked me out and I felt horrible when I woke up.
Also, DH woke up at 4:45 this morning to go to work and usually I can fall back asleep but my mind started going a mile a minute thinking about all different things and now I am pooped. I almost never have trouble sleeping, so I find this extra irritating, because being 3rd tri is already affecting my rest, I don't need my mind psyching me out too.
Hippocrate Friends!!!!
Yes, I know that we all are guilty of this at times but One of my friends is always telling me things like:
Don't buy old house it is too much work!
If I worked full time and just had 2 kids my house would always be spotless!
I can't believe you let your kids do that...I would never...
Then: I cannot believe you will not pick up your baby when they are crying...He needs you.
Now: See what you did, by holding baby all the time you created a Monster.
You worry to much.
It is annoying. My friend has more kids then I do and is a SAHM. We are super close
% years after buying our house she purcahsed a similar one with more work.
also , she seeems to forget that I have only seen her house 100's of times In the past 10 years I have only seen it clean a few time each year. No matter how bad my home was it was never anywhere near as messy as hers was. Ever. My messy house is equal to her clean house.
She lets her kids do many things that she tells me my children should not do...
Goes to the ER or emergent care at least once a month with her kids.
Thanks for listening to me whine
Mia! She is a morning napper. Unless we have something planned in the afternoon and then she refuses to nap until it is time to go. It is driving me CRAZY!
There are some good whines in this post. I hope you get heat soon Abba!
I have 2:
First, I'm getting another cold after just getting rid of the last one less than a week ago:(
Second, I wish people wouldn't decide to work with special education kids and hate kids. It's really sad. I understand burned out, THAT I get. But this is really past that and they say mean and hurtful things to the kids. I always end up looking like the bad person b/c these kids have no voice and I'll speak up for them and defend them. But if the kids are treated like they deserve to be treated, I really don't care. But it makes for a lousy workplace:(
Abba: Hoping you have heat soon. That's awful.
TTC since 6/2003. m/c 9/14/03 8 weeks, 5 chemical pregnancies, mmc 6/04 12 weeks, Michael born sleeping 5/25/05 at 22weeks always our angel, fought ovarian cancer and won, m/c 4/06 5.2 weeks and 7/07 6.6 weeks,Our Miracle baby girl born 4/8/10,mc 12/18/11 at 5.3 weeks, BFP 10/26/12 dating u/s on 11/8/12 showing a strong heartbeat!EDD July 4,2013. RCS on 6/27. Baby boy in NICU for 8 long and scary days before he was able to come home. We are now a happy family of 4
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