so my mom wants to be in the delivery room, but my DH really doesn't want her there. Since this will be our first my DH wants it to just the two of us. I dont really know how i feel either way. My mom side is that my grandma was in the room when my cousin was born and they talked how special that was for them. I think my mom just wants the same. I don't know what if any benefit it would be to have my mom there. Has anyone else dealt with this?