Another Update:
Got the call i was dreading but had a feeling it was coming... my levels went down from 3262 down to 3048. She already started talking about not needing surgery but possibly needed medicine to get rid of it and monitoring my levels some more...
Im not sure what to make of this im so confused and devastated right now, i cant stop crying. I had someone post on the board where she had the same bleeding i did and it was normal and she is fine but her doctors didn't put her through all of this stress that im going throught.
My mom wants me to go to a third doctor to check for a disappearing twin and see what that doctor says because she doesn't see how they are going to abort something that they cant see and all this started because they couldn't see anything at 4 weeks. I just really dont know what to do.
Re: Devastated & Confused
BFP#1 10 wk missed mc
BFP#2 DS born at 40+2 on 8/14/12 BFP#3 DD Born at 39+3 on 5/13/14
((HUGS)) I am so sorry you are going through this.
This. Be as diligent as you need to be to make sure you don't have an ectopic. My first pregnancy was ectopic and it was missed for almost 6 weeks. I ended up having emergency surgery and losing my fallopian tube.
One of the things that kept confusing my doctor was that my betas would drop and rise, drop and rise. Not trying to scare you...just want you to be aware.
Best of luck to you.
no suprisingly i have had no pain or clotting and its worrying me. Nothing is showing up on an ultrasound in my tubes so im praying either im to early along to see anything or i naturally miscarried at this point because i dont think i could live with myself knowing i had to abort it to save my life but if it has to be done it has to be done.
i feel so selfish saying this but i really hope i just naturally miscarried.