I don't think DB will ever grow up and get his $hit together. If the schedule isn't the same every week, he can't keep it straight.
He emailed me this morning asking "when I'm going to make DD available to him this weekend." My response was please refer to the the October 7th court order. Of course he sent a couple nasty emails back. I wanted to respond and say grow up and be responsible for yourself, but I didn't. Do they ever grow up?
Re: Does your Ex rely on you to keep his schedule straight?
We don't have a schedule, since he was a no show at court for the paternity hearing, it's "As agreed upon". However, he still flakes out at the last minute or calls Thursday asking to have her on the weekend without regard to the fact that she may have school stuff or we may have made plans.
DD is 15, and Ex is 39 today, so, no, they never grow up. On the plus side, I'm just glad he's a part of her life after 12 years of absence. Which, btw, he always said was his fault, so...maybe they grow up a little.
Absolutely. All the time.
...and no, they never grow up. He just turned 32 and hangs out with 21-23 year olds.
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I can see how the Google calendar would be helpful, however, I would basically be laying out the schedule for him and keeping things up-to-date. He wouldn't take any responsibility and put anything on there or actually use it. So, again, it would be me holding his hand and helping him out.
He ended up going to his attorney and getting the court order I told him to refer to. Then he sent the court order to me saying it didn't say anything about NYE or NY day. My response was....see #6, page 2, NY day (2012) from 9-1 p.m. And yet he still tried to argue with me. Aaaarrrghhhh!!!
At least I know others deal with this. And like you, I'm not in a co-parenting situation. It's definitely a parent and a crappy babysitter - that made me laugh! Thanks
Perhaps I'll look into this Google calendar thing. I think at the very least it would help to eleviate our email arguments which would be wonderful. I cringe every time I see an email from DB and think....here we go again. Nothing gets resolved in less than 10 emails back and forth. Do you have to have a gmail account? I only have yahoo email.