Late Term and Child Loss

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The only ppl that kinda sorta mententiond anything about Bri were my grandparents and they said they were talking about me with my dad and stepma so I know it came up. But nobody even my hubby said anything about Bri. Now I know she wouldn't have been born yet I am just 3-4 wks away from her due date but I think that since I HAD to name her and HAD to give birth to her and HAD to come up with a final resting place for her then SHE DID EXIST!! My sister even, last wk when we were finsihing up xmas shopping, I found an ornament with Brianna's name on it she asked me 'is that what you would have named her?' WOULD HAVE?!? Wth? Didn't we tell everyone her name and everything when this happened? And when everyone was insisting on getting me xmas presents all i asked for were things for Bri, a birth cup or urn or something of that nature, didn't get anything at all to remember her. I bought a my first doll that i would have gotten her and i think i will buy her something every year too. Im just sick of everybody in my family...wish i could just go dig a hole and cry into that forever and never leave it only to see my boys. I miss Bri I really want her back so bad and I don't like my family right now...
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  • I'm sorry that nobody honored your wishes for gifts for Bri.  I'm sorry they are acting like she didn't exist.  That is not fair to you or your daughter.  Big hugs to you and YH.
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  • I am sorry you're having a rough time. Hugs.
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  • I am so sorry. People don't get it but should acknowledge your daughter. That's not fair. Big hugs.
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  • I'm so sorry you're going through that. That's really unfair. They should acknowledge your child, regardless. 
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  • Hugs* I am sorry.

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