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ugh- life goes on - doesn't it?

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Aren't I supposed to get some kind of reprieve from anything else hurtful?

 

I was just stabbed in the back by someone for something totally unrelated to my loss. I'm so messed up with my own issues about losing Connor that I don't even care that much about her actions or deceit. My first thought was that her actions really show how heartless she really is for doing this at a time when I need support ? but then- the more hurtful truth set in that maybe she doesn?t even realize that I?m still hurting over Connor and thinks I?m over him. It stings more so because it is a reminder that life goes on than the fact that I was stabbed in the back. People are just going on about their normal ways despite the fact that I don't feel normal.

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  • starrkitten89starrkitten89
    (((Hugs))) It does seem like we should get a reprieve.I wish it worked that way!I am sorry someone is being hurtful to you.

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  • hewinkedhewinked
    I feel this same way!  I had 3 people very close to me be really hurtful in the last month, knowing that Adam was alive this time of year and died in January.  Their hurtful things were unrelated to my loss, but I am amazed at how insensitive they were. 
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  • Petunia844Petunia844 member
    Big hugs, yes it does seem like we should get a break.
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  • CaroleeCarolee member
    (((HUGS))) I'm sorry.  I agree with PP - we all deserve a free pass.  It stinks that things don't usually work out like that. 
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  • butterfly843butterfly843
    ((hugs)) I'm sorry

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  • pottermommypottermommy member

    Yup, you would think that there would be a break somewhere.....But unfortunately no.

    Kamryn passed on Sept 10th my mama had a stroke the same year Dec 15th she died on Jan 23rd and Kam's bday is Feb 8th.........All with in those 4 months.....

    I hate Sept thru Feb.....

    It does feel like everyone else kind of moves on and leaves you in the dust of your fallen life though... Hugs.  At the very least, we are still all sitting in our dust piles too, right beside you.

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