For those of you throwing first bday parties..

MarSamWhitney

Out of curiosity, if you put on the card to RSVP and do not hear from people, will you call?  Assume they are not coming? Have plenty of  food in case they come?

 

RouensDream

I would probably call. Although, most of my IRL friends are total flakes..so I really expect just family and a couple friends who aren't flakes to actually show up..sad..

Lovee+2

I already have a good idea of who will come and who will not. So if someone I was expecting to come did not RSVP then I would call. I send out some invites to my DH's family as a courtesy, because they never come. So in that case I wouldn't make the effort.

ffejsGirl

It would depend on how many I invited. Anything under 50 or so I'd just call.

It would also depend on what we were serving or having catered you know? It drives me insane that people can't RSVP, you know me right? I mean between email, text, facebook & the old fashion phone why is this so damn difficult?

Doodle2011

Call.  I fully expect to have to do it too, people are so ridiculous.

broccolitree

I'm planning on just everyone coming.  Since I'm doing a chili bar if nobody shows up I'll just re-freeze.  No big.