Everytime I bring up plans for my VBAC when talking to my mom, she kind of tunes me out. (we only speak on the phone as we live on opposite ends of the country) She didn't think my c-section with my son was a big deal, when it really was for me and it took me a long time to emotionally recover. Tonight I was telling her about a possible doula we found and I could just tell she wasn't interested at all. She also keeps telling me how other women have RCS and manage just fine- I know it's not the end of the world but my goal is a VBAC. It's just frustrating that she doesn't really seem to care about something that is so important to me.