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UPDATE.

yesanAEwifeyesanAEwife
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The guy is getting a divorce!!!! This makes it a lot easier for me to make my decision.

Thank you all for your opinions. And to those of you who were hateful, F---- You!

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  • achase123achase123

    FYI: this message board is public.

    I'm sure you and him will live happily ever after.  Good luck with that!

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  • SaraOflahertySaraOflaherty
    What does him getting a divorce have to do with whether or not you want to divorce your spouse?
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  • yesanAEwifeyesanAEwife

    imageSaraOflaherty:
    What does him getting a divorce have to do with whether or not you want to divorce your spouse?

    What?

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  • renegade gauchorenegade gaucho member

    imageSaraOflaherty:
    What does him getting a divorce have to do with whether or not you want to divorce your spouse?

    Duh, you can't leave your unhappy marriage until there's another swingin' _dick in the picture!

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  • peeps61308peeps61308 member
    imagerenegade gaucho:

    imageSaraOflaherty:
    What does him getting a divorce have to do with whether or not you want to divorce your spouse?

    Duh, you can't leave your unhappy marriage until there's another swingin' _dick in the picture!

    Yes

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    imagepeeps61308:
    imagerenegade gaucho:

    imageSaraOflaherty:
    What does him getting a divorce have to do with whether or not you want to divorce your spouse?

    Duh, you can't leave your unhappy marriage until there's another swingin' _dick in the picture!

    Yes

    Swingin' diicks are cool.

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  • PrettyInPearls23PrettyInPearls23 member
    What scare me is that there are innocent children involved in this trainwreck.

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  • yesanAEwifeyesanAEwife

    imagePrettyInPearls23:
    What scare me is that there are innocent children involved in this trainwreck.

    If we end up getting divorced, why does it matter? Our kids will be just fine thanks.

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  • imoanimoan member
    Can you just give your kids up for adoption NOW?  Because it's obvious that you're going to be one of those mothers who moves her kids from boyfriend's house to boyfriend's house.  
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  • malibu5880malibu5880
    imageyesanAEwife:

    imagePrettyInPearls23:
    What scare me is that there are innocent children involved in this trainwreck.

    If we end up getting divorced, why does it matter? Our kids will be just fine thanks.

    "IF" you end up getting divorced? Yeah, therein lies the problem. You don't even know if either of you are getting divorced.

    You seriously must be about 19 years old, or have the maturity of one. Telling people to F--- Off because they don't agree with you when you post something on a public message board suggests you're not very mature.

    Oh, FFS.
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  • yesanAEwifeyesanAEwife

    imageimoan:
    Can you just give your kids up for adoption NOW?  Because it's obvious that you're going to be one of those mothers who moves her kids from boyfriend's house to boyfriend's house.  

    How dare you! I love my child and would never do that.

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  • yesanAEwifeyesanAEwife
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    imageyesanAEwife:

    imagePrettyInPearls23:
    What scare me is that there are innocent children involved in this trainwreck.

    If we end up getting divorced, why does it matter? Our kids will be just fine thanks.

    "IF" you end up getting divorced? Yeah, therein lies the problem. You don't even know if either of you are getting divorced.

    You seriously must be about 19 years old, or have the maturity of one. Telling people to F--- Off because they don't agree with you when you post something on a public message board suggests you're not very mature.

    I didn't expect everyone to tell me what I wanted to hear. I do not think that the name calling and mean things that were said were necessary. You can disagree with me, but why is it okay for you to be rude about it?

    I understand the circumstances are less than ideal to start a new relationship, but just one date won't hurt anything.

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  • malibu5880malibu5880

    You told the SP commenters to F off when you posted your silly update. Was that OK for you to do? And what's interesting is I read the OP on this board. No one said anything rude or mean to you, in fact, there were hardly any replies at all, and the ones you got were quite tame and simply told you it was a bad idea. You're the one who's bringing this on herself (under an AE, no less) telling people to F off. Really, what did you expect with that ridiculous update? For everyone to change their minds and agree with you? You deserve everything anyone says to you after jumping on here and saying the things you did on each board you posted on.

    And let me remind you once again you opened yourself up for criticism, comments, and opinions the minute you posted your situation - asking for opinions. You got them, didn't like them, and now you're all butthurt about it. Get over yourself.  

    Oh, FFS.
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  • LadyLissameLadyLissame member

    Actually it can. Proof of adultery can affect things like alimony and if you live in one of the 12 states that allow it, you can be sued for alienation of affection by his wife.

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  • zitiqueenzitiqueen member
    imageyesanAEwife:

    imageimoan:
    Can you just give your kids up for adoption NOW?  Because it's obvious that you're going to be one of those mothers who moves her kids from boyfriend's house to boyfriend's house.  

    How dare you! I love my child and would never do that.

    Yeah! She's going to have the boyfriends move in with her because stability for her child is important!

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  • kellbell1919kellbell1919
    This whole series of posts makes me really, really sad.  Why do you jot like yourself enough to be ok being alone, to make decisions like a strong, independent adult?  I think you genuinely want to do what's best for yourself and your kids but I'm not sure you've done enough work on yourself to make a good decision on what's best : (
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