C&P. Opinions needed.

yesanAEwife

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PrettyInPearls23

1) You are only recently separated. Is this man actually divorced or is he still separated too?

2) There are children involved (his...I'm assuming you don't have any?)

3) You haven't even begun to focus on yourself, your child (if any??) and your new life as a single person

 

Do not pursue this.

yesanAEwife

PrettyInPearls23:

1) You are only recently separated. Is this man actually divorced or is he still separated too?

2) There are children involved (his...I'm assuming you don't have any?)

3) You haven't even begun to focus on yourself, your child (if any??) and your new life as a single person

 

Do not pursue this.

-He is also separated. I am not sure if they are pursuing divorce. I did not ask for details.

- I have one child.

LoveyFNR

I agree with everyone on that post. Either go through with your divorce or forget about this "crush". I don't see a point in not divorcing your H and then pursuing another relationship. It doesn't make any sense.

achase123

I guess you didn't like the majority of the other answers you got (with the exception of maybe one poster who didn't see the harm in it). sounds like opening up a huge can of worms and a mess of trouble if you ask me.  IMO, if you are THIS interested in someone else, it's a clue you should get out of your marriage.  But you'd be doing everyone a huge favor by ending your marriage before even considering another relationship.

What's meant to be will be.  If this person really is into you and you are into him, when the time is right you can see what happens.

achase123

yesanAEwife:

-He is also separated. I am not sure if they are pursuing divorce. I did not ask for details.

- I have one child.

Why wouldn't you ask for details.  I sure would want to know if someone I was interested in was merely separated or was actually going through with a divorce.  Sounds fishy.