I am trying to figure out whether I can afford to leave H. Can you tell me how much your typical weekly grocery bill is for you and two kids? Need to make sure I can afford it financially and need to get something figured out asap tonight if possible.
Re: Budget - Please help quickly
If you feel you need to leave than leave. I asked mine to leave knowing that I could not make ends meet. I had to swallow my pride and ask for help. I am one of the lucky ones who have family who allow me to rent a home from them for dirt cheap, and help me pay other bills as I need. Additionally contact the state to see if you qualify for any aide there such as WIC and food stamps.
As for costs of food It is just my daughter and I we spend about 200 a month depending on sales and coupons. I tend to stick to store brands and shop at aldies/
Myself and 3 kids I spend approx $300/mth in a MCOL area.
And I agree with PP, if you want to leave, leave. I was a SAHM when I told my H I wanted a divorce. I made it work.
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Agreed. For DS and I I budget $200/month. Sometimes it's more, sometimes less. You can save a significant amount of money by shopping sales, price matching, and buying generic brands.
If you need to leave, LEAVE. You (not DC) can survive on ramen and easy mac for a while if you need to.