Memories of miscarriage still hard

itsmevkb

I came into work today to an email with pictures from a friends first birthday party for her son.  She and I were pregnant at the same time except she had a son and I lost a daughter.  Even a full year later when I have a smiling, healthy four month old baby at home, seeing pictures of her son still hurt.  I never thought having another baby would take the pain of my losses away but I'm sometimes surprised by how fresh those feelings are even a full year later, and nearly two years in the case of first miscarriage.

Dragonfly1226

I still get sad when I think of the babies I lost. In some ways it is harder now that I know what I am missing. I wonder what those babies would be like today. I'm not sure if m/c is something you ever tealy get over. (((((hugs)))))

wiscgirl95

(( hugs))

lnle

Dragonfly1226:

I still get sad when I think of the babies I lost. In some ways it is harder now that I know what I am missing. I wonder what those babies would be like today. I'm not sure if m/c is something you ever tealy get over. (((((hugs)))))

this exactly. I see how amazing my trio is and it makes me sad about the ones I missed out on. Then again, I may not have the trio today if I hadn't lost the earlier ones. It's so hard.

howleyshell

I am amazingly aware of kids the ages of what my first loss child would be.  Like you I have a dear friend who has a son about the same age mine would have been and it's almost impossible to be around him and not think "what if"

Hugs to you, Mamma.

Loss sucks. 

lovemymonkey

((((((hugs)))))