Parenting after a Loss

6+ ?

So I didn't become an active poster over there--we were TTCAL for 7mos when I did my intro and ended up getting my BFP that cycle. But I lurk there all the time. Now the majority of my friends that are still TTCAL are all on 6+ and I want to post on their threads so much but I don't want to upset anyone. They all pretty much have the PgAL/PAL Welcome in their siggy but I know that was more a TTCAL Light initiative. Since I wasn't an active poster over there is it better that I don't post? I'm afraid my buddies might think I've stopped checking on them even though we talk on FB. But a lot of the times they put things on the board that they don't in our FB group...

 ETA: I know my buddies wouldn't care if I posted. I'm more concerned about the ladies that were there before them that I didn't really get to know. 

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Re: 6+ ?

  • I post on 6+ if it's someone I know (who is well aware I have spawned), or if it's someone who I don't know (if they have a specific question about something I have direct experience with and they have the pgal welcome in their siggy).

    I figure if the op has pgal welcome in their siggy, then it's fair warning and fair game to anyone who opens the post.  


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    I post on 6+ if it's someone I know (who is well aware I have spawned), or if it's someone who I don't know (if they have a specific question about something I have direct experience with and they have the pgal welcome in their siggy).

    I figure if the op has pgal welcome in their siggy, then it's fair warning and fair game to anyone who opens the post.  

    I think this is good advice. I don't "know" too many people there anymore, but when I did post there I felt ok posting when the OP knew me. Or if I start a post there (very rare) I put a ticker warning. 

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