I love that my DH......., but I also wish that he would ....

lob

In honor of the recent MIL thread.  GO! 

lob

I love that my DH is a very active (and creative) father that plays with DS,  but I wish that he would would stop playing video games so much!

firewiferut

I love that my DH ... takes his time doing things, but I also wish that he would ... hurry the fvck up sometimes!!

Matt Dvorak

I love that my DH does the majority of the housework and cooking right now, but I wish that he would be a bit more romantic at times! (my fault...I never gave the romantic type of guy a chance b/c I found them too cheesy - but every once in awhile would be nice!!)

unm00red

I love that DP is willing to take an active role in helping with LO, but I also wish that he would not get so stressed out when LO cries.

Fisherman'sWife

I love that my DH is a homebody.... but I wish he would get motivated to get a better job! 

vstevens

I love that my DH works insane hours to provide a great life for our family while letting me quit lawyer-ing to do something that I'm passionate about but that doesn't pay well...but I wish he would just once pick up his dirty clothes/used dishes/garbage/ANYTHING!

jennypenny1014

I love that my DH is happy with what he does for a living, and is truly an amazing husband and father...but I wish he'd be willing to make the sacrifice to do something he doesnt necessarily like and find a better job that pays more so that the burden of providing doesnt fall almost solely on my shoulders...I'm sick of being broke, and/or crying over lack of money.

Mrs.P08

I love that my DH work really hard to provide for us and takes control of tough situations but I also wish that he would remember I am not one of his employees and I need romance and love!

chillyupnorth

I love that my DH ... helps out so much around the house, but I also wish that he would ... understand that I *** about his going hunting for a whole day every weekend is mostly because I don't have time to squeeze in an hour of exercise (total) in a whole week.

Monsieur_et_Madame_Ha

Oh haven't you people go tmore important things to do than b!tch about your loving husbands?

I kid, I kid.

All right, here's mine:

I love that DH wants to help around the house. I just wish his helping was actually helpful!

For instance, he put way too much soap in the washer the other day, so I had to run 3 extra rinse cycles to get it all out. Another is we spent the weekend at my parents'. I let him sleep in while I packed our bag. When he woke up, he thought he'd help by packing his dirty boxers and socks - right there with the clean clothes (all the while being full aware that there was a separate bag for dirty clothes). ugh.

chillyupnorth

Monsieur_et_Madame_Ha:

Oh haven't you people go tmore important things to do than b!tch about your loving husbands?

I kid, I kid.

All right, here's mine:

I love that DH wants to help around the house. I just wish his helping was actually helpful!

For instance, he put way too much soap in the washer the other day, so I had to run 3 extra rinse cycles to get it all out. Another is we spent the weekend at my parents'. I let him sleep in while I packed our bag. When he woke up, he thought he'd help by packing his dirty boxers and socks - right there with the clean clothes (all the while being full aware that there was a separate bag for dirty clothes). ugh.

Oh, this for me too!!

DH helps out by cleaning the house and de-cluttering it. The problem is that the piles of clutter get moved onto my desk... which is incredibly unhelpful.

lj smith

I love that my DH works hard and provides for us so that I can stay home and be with the kids ... but I really wish that he could focus more on being home when he's here instead of constantly checking his phone for work emails or researching new things for work. He doesn't always do it, but when he does all I want to do is toss his phone out the window!

dsouth92

I love that my DH cooks dinner and works hard to provide so I can be a SAHM but I wish he would pick up after himself, take the trash out before its falling out to the floor, and help with DS more. Hes getting better about helping with DS but everytime he cries DH thinks hes hungry....

AKBrideinMD

I love that my DH works hard to provide so I am able to quit my job and be a SAHM but sometimes I wish he was a little more romantic.

wintermama11

I love that my DH does most of the cooking, but I also wish he would actually play with DD.  He holds her for 5 minutes and then is looking to put her in her jumperoo/activity mat/swing/bouncy seat to entertain her and he goes on the computer.  He's a very good father, but this just gets on my nerves.

BabyQuizzle

I love that DH works so hard to support us so I can work only part time once I go back to work, but I wish he would give me a little more credit for all I do.  Taking care of a baby, a house, and two crazy dogs is hard work.  I don't just sit around on the computer and watch TV all day . . . only sometimes

DanielleD7

firewiferut:

I love that my DH ... takes his time doing things, but I also wish that he would ... hurry the fvck up sometimes!!

 This, exactly. Sometimes I need him to just get something done but it ends up taking 3x as long as it should. He does a really good job, it just makes asking him to do something difficult sometimes.

Gilliebear

I love that my DH works his @$$ off so we live comfortably but I wish that he would magically be cured of his allergies so I can keep my dog, lower his cleaning standards(I dont get to the top of the fridge every week you know) and realize that grabbing my boobs while doing the dishes doesn't lead to sex, wheres the romance pal?

buckyfan30

I love that my DH offers to make dinner for us sometimes, but man..does he ever make a mess!! I spend twice as long cleaning it up.

ohyeahdollface

I love that my DH is working so hard at his shitty hole in the wall job, that he hates.. and tries to be positive about it. 

I hate that he tells me I do nothing all day. Yeah babe, our kid refused to nap all day.. kept shitting her pants and waking herself up from the nap I finally got her down for.. and has tied up any spare time I could get. No. Your work pants are not in your closet. They are in the dryer, get them yourself.