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Pity party post (NPGALR)

I'm soo ready for this year to be over! Actually the last 2 years have been more bad than good. But 2011 is getting ridiculous :(

Two years ago this month my uncle died unexpectedly. And so far this year - my cousin was murdered in February ( case is still open with no suspects), my daughter was still born in June, my older brother lost his job last month due to down sizing and I just found out my Grandfather passed this morning :(

Looks like I need to start looking for flights to Chicago.

I sure hope next year is better

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  • Oh no!  I'm sorry about your grandpa and about everything else that has happened.  2012 has got to be better for you!  ((HUGS))
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  • I am so sorry for your losses.  And next year WILL be better!  You will have your LO in your arms!
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  • This was a horrible year for  you.  I am so sorry.  Next year HAS to be a good year for you....for all of us!  ((hugs))

    On a happier note, I just wanted to say I am still so happy to see you over here.  I love seeing all the familiar faces over here.

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  • :( I am so sorry. I am positive that 2012 will be a better year for you. (((HUGS)))
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  • I am so sorry! Big hug! 2010 and 2011 has been pretty rough on my family too - only bright spot is this pregnancy.
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  • I am so sorry. 2011 was definitely a horrible year for you, I am sorry about you grandfather passing today. I think things are going to turn around and 2012 will be amazing!

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  • I'm sorry about your grandfather. I really hope that 2012 brings you a lot more joy! 
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  • ((( Huge Hugs )))

    Hopefully 2012 is much better!  We are just a few more weeks away.

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  • I'm so sorry about your grandfather and your crummy year. Hopefully 2012 will bring lots of great things for you. 
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  • First, I would like to say I am so very sorry for all of your losses this year and everything else that has gone wrong.  I am so happy to see you over here though and I hope it's for the long haul and that in 8 months you can post pictures of your beautiful baby and tell us how healthy he/she is and how awesome you are doing.

    But I must also say, this is exactly how I feel!  This year has SUCKED.  Worst year of my life, hands down.  First, we got hit with a $10K tax bill this year because MH's employer screwed up his withholdings, so we had to basically empty out our savings account when we were saving for a house for next year.  Then both of our dogs got very sick and we had over $1K in vet bills in the month of May alone.  Then MH got appendicitis and had an emergency appendectomy.  Then we get pregnant and at a little over 6 weeks, lose the baby.  Then our car gets broken into in our own garage, windows smashed, GPS stolen, everything.  Then things are starting to look up because we get pregnant again, and then we learn yesterday that the baby has a 1 in 113 risk of having Down Syndrome and that we need to decide whether to proceed with an amnio and then possibly decide whether or not we are going to go forward with the pregnancy.  I literally feel like everything I touch breaks. 

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  • I am so sorry! I hope 2012 brings you nothing but joy!
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  • Sorry to hear the sad news about your grandfather and your other family tragedies thses past coupld years.  :(  {{hugs}}
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  • I am so sorry to hear about all this.  Thoughts and prayers are with you.  2012 is going to be a much better year for you, I know it!  Stay strong - we're here for you. 
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  • Oh my goodness...I am so sorry to hear about your Grandpa, as well as everything you have been through this past couple years.  You have had more than your share of sadness.

    I hope that 2012 brings you and your DH much luck, love and happiness as well as your take home baby, you deserve nothing less.  ((((Hugs))))

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  • imagecandacek31:
    I am so sorry for your losses.  And next year WILL be better!  You will have your LO in your arms!

    I totally agree with pp's statement. That is too much loss for one family to bear. Next year HAS to be better!

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  • Im sorry its been so crappy for you. I had to comment because.. my cousin was murdered the same year my son was stillborn too. Its all to much to take on. I hope things get better and Im very sorry about your Grandpa.
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  • imageprestonsmomma:
    Im sorry its been so crappy for you. I had to comment because.. my cousin was murdered the same year my son was stillborn too. Its all to much to take on. I hope things get better and Im very sorry about your Grandpa.
    That's crazy! I makes it so hard to have any faith left in the world after a year like this one.
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  • I'm so sorry to hear about your Grandfather. I know 2012 will be much better for you guys. ((HUGS))
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