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I hope I go into labor before my c-section.

sabrina69barnessabrina69barnes member
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LO's c-section date is May 14th. I just looked at both of the districts' calenders for SS, SD, and DS2's schools. The last day of school for all of the them is May 15th. According to our custody order we are suppossed to pick of SS and SD for the summer on the 16th. We will still be in the hospital and DH only get's a week off from work unpaid. I don't know if we can afford for him to take off more. There is no ways I can handle 5 kids while recovering from a c-section without help and the idea of 3 stresses me the crap out. I guess if I have to I will but I really hope I can get some help. This would be so much easier if I hadn't O'd 6 days late. Maybe I'll get lucky this time and by some miracle go into labor on my own before my c-section date.
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  • rosenb2brosenb2b member

    I hope if LO doesn't come early, you can find someone to help you out!!  That's WAY too much to try to do alone after a c-section!  The good news is that maybe the kids can help a little??  Maybe??

    I'm definitely not in the 5 kids situation but I'm stressed about my date too.  Mine is purely mental however.  There's a day in January where something bad happens to us every year (for the last 3 years anyway) and as of this moment, the latest they will let me go is one day before that.  I cannot be away from my DS that day period.  I'll never forgive myself if something bad happens again and I'm not with him.  UGH.  Plus, the current date is someone else's birthday and that child is just not a nice, well behaved child.  Embarrassed  I'd rather not have the association...Stupid, I know.

    I guess our LO's will either come when ready or be evicted.  I just hope they both cooperate with their mother's wishes!  LOL

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  • jkfranklinjkfranklin member
    Can you modify the agreement a little so that they don't come for a week or two after LO is born?
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  • sabrina69barnessabrina69barnes member
    imagejkfranklin:
    Can you modify the agreement a little so that they don't come for a week or two after LO is born?
    We are going to with SS and SD but I'll still have DS1&2. DS2 is the one that stresses me out the most.
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  • opalloveropallover
    Have yu tried care.com? We found a part time nanny there and she is amazing!
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