Depression

Stillharbor

While we've all been TTC... How are your husbands dealing with this depression?

I know I have the few days when AF shows up that are really hard to deal with, but then I pretty much go back to normal (or so my husband says.)  However, my husband seems to be dealing with this "worse"? (Is that a good word?)  He doesn't go out for sports anymore, he's gaining weight, and his sex drive is WAY down.  He would be happy having sex once a month if that.  He's never in the mood anymore...  Even when we come up to the next O time, he says he's just not in the mood (no matter what I try), and his "trying to work up the effort" makes me feel like I'm nagging him. 

How are your husbands doing? 

matthewsbride05

It may be helpful for your husband to see his PCP.  It sounds like this could be a depression that may require some medicine (perhaps for a short-term).  However, only a doctor can tell you that for sure.  Best wishes!