Anyone else touched out?

Jelliebean1982

The baby woke up before 7 so I took him downstairs so his noises didn't wake up DD.  But of course she woke up cranky soon after and came downstairs.  I spent all morning nursing, cuddling, and drinking coffee with the kids.  When it was time for DS's nap I took him upstairs and put him down.  DH, of course, saw me and wanted me to cuddle in bed with him. 

I'm so tired of cuddling!  I just want some space!  So I told him I needed to finish my coffee and returned downstairs, where DD is still climbing on top of me.  Luckily, DH fell back asleep and will probably forget that I rejected him. 

eesome

A similar thing happened to me last Sunday.

DS was overly tired, and wanted me to hold him while he watched his cartoons. I then put him down for a nap, and DD needed me. I held and rocked her to sleep for her nap, and then I go to bed where DH is napping. He wants to "cuddle" with me (HA!) and I told him I was too tired and really wanted to nap. He was pissy for about 3 seconds and then started snoring again. lol

red1976

I think I'm feeling the same way. I crave some 'just me' time. I EBF so I feel like I am always sharing my body. I'm not as huggy, touchy with DH anymore but that may be fatigue/hormones as well.

Cobra11

Definitely, I don't cuddle with SO anymore at night, but that's also because he is sooooooo hot. (LOL) But I'm not nearly as touchy feely as I used to to be.

ohyeahdollface

DH must be feeling neglected from the nonexistant cuddles. 

We went to bed the other night... and he pretty much had me pinned down all night. I guess he really just wanted to cuddle.. and I kept rolling away. I did not sleep at all... because I felt smothered and just wanted my side of the bed!! 

danni914

Luckily the dog plops all of his 70 lbs in between the two of us so if we are cuddling anyone it's Killian.

Monsieur_et_Madame_Ha

I hear ya Jelli! There are days where I want to scream "Can I spend 1 minute without anyone touching me PLEASE!"

kjuryfl

Lol, DH forceful snuggles when he really wants attention. I'm the anti-snuggle (unless it's post nookie) so I tend to try and escape this snuggles. He is like a furnace and has. I problem being sweaty while sleeping.. I can't stand it!