What a simple hug can do..

MsGMChick

This morning was a yucky mess of me picking a fight with my H. I don't even know why I was picking a fight. I was "mad" over something silly but it didn't feel silly at the time. I got mad to the point where I started putting my clothes on to grab the dogs and go out to give mh some "alone time". I wasn't really going anywhere, I was just being freakin' dramatic as hell. MH just looked at me, shook his head, walked over and gave me a hug. He said, "It's ok. You're having an emotional day." It stopped me mid track and caused some big ugly tears. 

I swear I didn't use to be so dramatic and emotional all.the.damn.time. These days (not this bad usually) are just coming too often. I've been having so much emotional disequilibrium. IF SUCKS! 

/ rant 

Jezebell26

I couldn't agree with you more and im so glad YH did that!!! Whenever I would take Provera, i turned into a nasty b!tch and really had no idea why. I told MH sometimes he just needed to realize it was the hormones and stuff and just come over and hug me and tell me everything will be ok. Amazing how much better and relieved I feel.

Sending you lots of hugs and just hang in there. Everyone says the end justifies the means. You will get through this! Hope you have a better day and enjoy your Thanksgiving!

*hugs*

kellygksu

I'm sorry you are having a bad day.  That was very sweet of your DH though!

I've been wondering if, and kind of hoping that, my extreme irritability lately is the evil Clomid.  In my previous cycles, I've just noticed that I could get a little teary pretty easily.  But this cycle, watch out!  I've been a little b!tchy-  I hope it's just the hormones!

I hope the rest of your day is better!

tgreenf

I'm sorry your emotions are getting the best of you some days. I feel your pain! I am glad you got a big ol hug from DH to help ease your pain. I hope you get to feeling better soon hon!

lily8543

That's great YH can recognize when you need a hug or to hear, "It's ok". I feel the same way about being so emotional lately- I have been pissy all week. For no reason! Hope your day gets better!

ukcats27

I'm so sorry you're having a bad day.  But it sounds like you have a very understanding husband! Hope your day gets better!! 

eponine7682

Sometimes that is the best thing in the world and all it takes to calm us down. I love it when DH "gets me" like that. Sorry you are having a bad day hun. Here are some additional (((hugs))) for ya!

MsGMChick

You girls make me tear up! Thank you. I was afraid to post because I know I was being crazy and I appreciate being understood. I'm very lucky to have an H who sees my crazy and matches it with a hug. LOL

brookelynpaisley

Ugh, I know how you feel. I got super emotional at Old Navy this past weekend for no reason and had to walk out and leave my would-be purchases behind. It happens far more often than I ever remember.

Yay for your husband for understanding just what you needed ((hugs))

sushilover0214

That's great of your DH to be so supportive.  It's so difficult going through IF and to have a supporting husband makes it a little easier.  I have a coworker who is also going through IF (what a small, yucky world) and her husband is not supportive.  He basically blames her for not getting pregnant.  I feel terrible for her.  Hope you feel better soon.

MsGMChick

Thanks, girls! And sushi, that would be so awful and hard. 

I'm currently making this for MH. You ladies are invited over to have a piece

pulga131

Sorry you're having a rough day. SOunds like you have a wonderful husband who knows just how to help it though! ((Hugs))

SMF&ADS091507

Oh hunny! Sorry you are having an emotional day. We have all been there. So glad your husband was able to understand you and give you what you needed. I know my husband is the same way and it does help. IF is evil!! Sending you lots of hugs