August 2011 Moms

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I could really use some internet hugs right now, it's been a day from hell. I don't know what's wrong with my baby who just screams all the time, can't be put down, never seems full. Is it me? How do I know he's even eating enough? I just don't know what he wants :( I'm seriously in tears right now because I don't know wth to do. I've been listening to a screaming baby all day long and I'm starting to lose it.
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  • :::hugs::: hang in there! I'm in the same boat and I just keep telling myself it won't last. Get yourself a break pronto!
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  • Take 5 big deep breaths and let them out slowly and completely. I'm sure you've tried everything in the book, but I can offer you bigs hugs. You are a great mom. Hang in there just a little longer. Don't let go!
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  • *Hugs* Its just a bad day sweetie
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  • Thanks ladies! I hope this is just a phase of the week or something.
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  • just a thought, any time Connor screams like that his mouth hurts and he needs some orajel/teething tabs and he stops within seconds.  
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  • I'm sorry your DS is having such a bad day.  Things will get better!  Hang in there mama.
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  • imagebuckyfan30:
    just a thought, any time Connor screams like that his mouth hurts and he needs some orajel/teething tabs and he stops within seconds.  

    My SO suggested this as well but I am so hesitant to give medicine of any kind. I think if this continues tomorrow I will definitely try it. 

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  • Aw!! I've been there and tend to visit that "special place" more than I like. It could be hunger and exhaustion. I didnt read the other responses, but are you BF or bottle feeding? I found that once I started pumping I could see how much my guy wanted to eat instead of just guessing if he was getting enough from my breast. Now, I give him x amount and he either finishes it and wants more or stops after 3 oz or so. I also learned that I had totally been missing his sleepy cues. Since I started more formal nap times, he's been much nicer to me.

    Good luck!! ::hugs::

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  • I'm so sorry! :(

    I second the teething tablets. Even if you are anti-medication, the tablets are much more gentle and are made of natural ingredients (most are).

    You can also freeze a wash cloth, and see if he will chew on it.

    ((((hugs)))) I know how you feel. 

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  • I was also supposed to go out tonight with a friend who just got back into town and she cancelled on me. So of course I cried for like 20 mins about that.

    Anyway, thanks Ee, I think I will look into the the teething tablets, it's got to be pain.

    And mish-I BF and when I pump I get enough out that he's satisfied but he never pulls off on his own anymore so I feel like he's still hungry. He also hits, pinches and pulls the whole time he's feeding, I feel like he's frustrated or something. 

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  • Big (((HUGS))) sweetie. I'm so sorry :( Pls know you're not alone. We had rough day in the etoyama household as well. Blah. Hopefully tomorrow will be better!
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  • Awwww man - Days like that blow. Just hang in there - It will get better. I promise
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  • Thanks again ladies! 
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    I was also supposed to go out tonight with a friend who just got back into town and she cancelled on me. So of course I cried for like 20 mins about that.

    Anyway, thanks Ee, I think I will look into the the teething tablets, it's got to be pain.

    And mish-I BF and when I pump I get enough out that he's satisfied but he never pulls off on his own anymore so I feel like he's still hungry. He also hits, pinches and pulls the whole time he's feeding, I feel like he's frustrated or something

    This is usually a sign for us that he's working on a giant poop. Have you noticed him pooping regularly? We had a screaming day, and the doc told me to give him a rectal temp to help things move along. Unfortunately, it didn't work for us, but it usually does 99% of the time for most. Just a thought.

    Hang in there momma. Remember, his crib is a safe place for him to be while you catch a few breaths. It's okay to lock yourself in the bathroom for a bit and scream or cry until you can gear up again.

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    imageCobra11:

    I was also supposed to go out tonight with a friend who just got back into town and she cancelled on me. So of course I cried for like 20 mins about that.

    Anyway, thanks Ee, I think I will look into the the teething tablets, it's got to be pain.

    And mish-I BF and when I pump I get enough out that he's satisfied but he never pulls off on his own anymore so I feel like he's still hungry. He also hits, pinches and pulls the whole time he's feeding, I feel like he's frustrated or something

    This is usually a sign for us that he's working on a giant poop. Have you noticed him pooping regularly? We had a screaming day, and the doc told me to give him a rectal temp to help things move along. Unfortunately, it didn't work for us, but it usually does 99% of the time for most. Just a thought.

    Hang in there momma. Remember, his crib is a safe place for him to be while you catch a few breaths. It's okay to lock yourself in the bathroom for a bit and scream or cry until you can gear up again.

    I thought he might be constipated but he's actually a great pooper lol.

    And thanks for the advice I do appreciate all the responses. It turns out you have to try things a few times, I put him in his exersaucer before his bath and he was all too happy lol. 

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  • Left Hug I hope things get better! Have you tried orajel or teething ring? Kalia got the same way the other day and I was beside myself, I couldn't figure it out so I tried orajel just to see, but thinking it was way too early but she has been a mess these past few days and I'm pretty sure it's the onset of teething. The orajel has helps along with the teething rings. She seems to be doing better, but it's rough.
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