I did it! Im going to be a single mom :)

mamastich

Im going to be active here, I finally decided to leave him. Today is our 2 year anniversary and Im sure were done. Ive been posting so some of yall know the story but he cheated while I was PG and I found out a few weeks ago. We have been in therapy with him saying hes willing to try and work it out but I found out yesterday hes been seeing someone else. annnd now i can say, I didnt everything I could have to keep this together. I didnt want to give up to early but I know Im good now, ill be better on my own. breaking up must be hard to do but i was raised by a single mom and i know it can work.

I told him I wanted a D and i feel good about, im angry as hell and feel the need to screw him over but that should pass soon well sign some papers before i move across the country but im happy to do this

JellymanKelly

I'll tell you what my mom told me the night H and I decided to call it quits (or rather the night that I found out he cheated AGAIN and wasn't planning to move back home after working out of town). You feel empowered right now, and that's GREAT. Ride that wave as long as you can because there are going to be some dark days. You'll feel like you're on a crazy roller coaster for awhile: Happy one day, devastated the next, angry the day after that, scared the day after that. Enjoy those days where you feel relieved and let them carry you through the bad days!

 

Be strong. You're doing the right thing! 

LadyLissame

That sounds just like my story. While you are on this "high" write down everything you are feeling. There will be bad days where you ask yourself if it can work. Thats when you go back and reread what you wrote. I have my bad days still But you can do this and you LO will be better for it.

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USMCPurpleHeart

Good for you!!!!!!

That is the hardest part (for me at least)! Stay strong and you will get thru this! There will still be tough days but it gets better!