starting to deny ;(

mrsthorpe25

me and my husband have been ttc for about 8 months now and after many miscarriages I have just found myself letting go now.I really want us to finally have our lil boy in our family but i am beginning to doubt it will ever happen.i have gotten checkups to make sure im ok he is fine and so we are just unsure whats wrong..i dont know what to do now and im starting to just lose my faith in this hope..if you guys have any suggestions please help

Raggedy1

Everyone has their low points when TTC is taking a long time, but hang in there and keep the faith.  If you've had multiple miscarriages maybe it's time to see a reproductive endocrinologist (RE) for specialized tests and help.  

lsgabriel

Raggedy1:

Everyone has their low points when TTC is taking a long time, but hang in there and keep the faith.  If you've had multiple miscarriages maybe it's time to see a reproductive endocrinologist (RE) for specialized tests and help.  

This.  An RE can make recommendations to help you stay pregnant, and potentially refer you to a high risk OB/GYN from there.

Sorry for your losses. 

Trish11278

Raggedy1:

Everyone has their low points when TTC is taking a long time, but hang in there and keep the faith.  If you've had multiple miscarriages maybe it's time to see a reproductive endocrinologist (RE) for specialized tests and help.  

This!  Sorry for your losses.  No one fully understands the pain of miscarriages unless you have been through it.  I hope you can start to heal emotionally and physically.

hootie123

mrsthorpe25:

me and my husband have been ttc for about 8 months now and after many miscarriages I have just found myself letting go now.I really want us to finally have our lil boy in our family but i am beginning to doubt it will ever happen.i have gotten checkups to make sure im ok he is fine and so we are just unsure whats wrong..i dont know what to do now and im starting to just lose my faith in this hope..if you guys have any suggestions please help

I hope you understand that you don't get a choice if your baby is a boy or girl.

sbrowns08

hootie123:

mrsthorpe25:

me and my husband have been ttc for about 8 months now and after many miscarriages I have just found myself letting go now.I really want us to finally have our lil boy in our family but i am beginning to doubt it will ever happen.i have gotten checkups to make sure im ok he is fine and so we are just unsure whats wrong..i dont know what to do now and im starting to just lose my faith in this hope..if you guys have any suggestions please help

I hope you understand that you don't get a choice if your baby is a boy or girl.

Thank goodness someone else said it. And i agree with the others, after multiple losses you should seek the help of an RE. Good luck!

OnTheLanai

sbrowns08:

hootie123:

mrsthorpe25:

me and my husband have been ttc for about 8 months now and after many miscarriages I have just found myself letting go now.I really want us to finally have our lil boy in our family but i am beginning to doubt it will ever happen.i have gotten checkups to make sure im ok he is fine and so we are just unsure whats wrong..i dont know what to do now and im starting to just lose my faith in this hope..if you guys have any suggestions please help

I hope you understand that you don't get a choice if your baby is a boy or girl.

Thank goodness someone else said it. And i agree with the others, after multiple losses you should seek the help of an RE. Good luck!

Im glad Im not the only one who thought that!

So sorry and good luck!