I am curious to see what other people's experiences are/have been. I have not talked to my RE since right before we started our failed cycle. Is this the norm at MGH and other clinics? Going into this I thought we would have had lots of contact with her. Instead, I felt a little uninformed throughout the entire process.
Thank you for any input!
Books read in 2011: 85 (so far)
Books read in 2010: 80
Me: 33 H: 35
We have never attempted to conceive on our own due to H having a genetic disease that causes tumors. The chance of our children inheriting the disease is 50/50. After consulting with H's oncologist and an RE specializing in PGD we decided to pursue IVF with PGD.
IVF#1 ER - 11/1 - 25R; 18M; 14F with ICSI; ET - 11/6 only 1 morula to transfer due to 13 embryos being affected by the disease. 11/17 - Beta = BFN
PAIF/SAIF always welcome
Re: Anyone on here use MGH Fertility Clinic?
Thank you. It is good to hear it is the norm to not generally talk to your RE throughout the cycle. I never asked this question prior to starting and thought it was odd. I am really not sure what kind of communcation I was expecting!
My husband and his family all have a long historty with MGH due to the family genetic condition that led us to IVF/PGD so there was no dicussion about where we would go to for the cycle. Even though the outcome of my first cycle was not what I expected I did feel comfortable with the drs performing all the u/s, ER and ET.
Thank you for the input!
I don't know about not talking with your RE throughout your cycle. It's not as through I see our RE on a regular basis, for every appt, but I do have access to him throughout. He's the only doctor in the office, though I don't use MGH FC. If I feel as though I'm not getting the answers from his nursing staff, I can either text or call our RE using his personal cell number. When we were going through our IUIs, I did feel as though we were just another face, doling out $$$ at every appt. Problem was the staff was charging us w/o running the invoices through insurance. The problem came to light & not only did the staff apologize but the doctor apologized, at 9P at nite after the whole situation came to light.
I would say, if you want to meet with your RE, then request a meeting/consult. If the staff says that he/she is to busy, then maybe you need to seek out another doctor. You aren't a number or their cash cow. Your fertility clinic's main job is to get you PG & to take care of you emotionally - that includes explaining everything to the greatest detail so that you understand the entire process.
GL!
While it might be an uncommon practice, it's just the way that my RE operates. It's not like I asked him for it, he just gave it to me. As he does other patients of his. I wasn't trying to come off as being a snob, I think if you need a consult with your RE then request one. That's all I was trying to get at. Sorry.