For right now I'm just collecting everything like that in the memory box the hospital gave us... maybe one day I'll figure out something better to do?
Married the love of my life 7/11/09 - Our first baby, Peyton Mark, was born sleeping 10/25/11 at 33 weeks - Our second baby, BFP 2/4/12, welcome to the world Raylan! Holy Moly, BPF 2/4/14, please be safe and sound little one!
We just have it in one of her bins where we keep her keepsakes.
DD #1 passed away in January 2011 at 14 days old due to congenital heart disease
DD#2 lost in January 2012 at 23 weeks due to anhydramnios caused by a placental abruption
We have a safe, we're going to put Nathaniel's in there. I didn't want to put it in our regular filing cabinet because a) I didn't want it to be a constant reminder b) I was afraid at some point we would clean out files and end up destroying it on accident.
We'll put the memory box in there too because the pix the hospital took are in there and except for the one of the feet, the rest are, well- scary. He's very discolored and while he's beautiful to me, I don't want my daughter to stumble upon them someday.
We have a big bag of everything that's Annabelle's including her birth and death certificates. Right now it's just sitting in our room and I can't bear to put it anywhere else. I really want to find a place for it all but I can't decide where that is... And I like the fact that I can see everything there when I go to bed at night. So as of now it is just going to stay there.
We have a big bag of everything that's Annabelle's including her birth and death certificates. Right now it's just sitting in our room and I can't bear to put it anywhere else. I really want to find a place for it all but I can't decide where that is... And I like the fact that I can see everything there when I go to bed at night. So as of now it is just going to stay there.
This. Although my husband keeps asking when I'm going to clean the pile off our dresser. I'm planning to put the death and birth certificates in the safe since these are legal documents... not that we will likely need them. The blankets, stuffed animals, and pictures are another story... still trying to figure out what to do with them.
Hugs to all.
TTC #1 since October 2008. Dealing with MFI.
IVF #1 w ICSI in July 2010 = BFN
IVF #2.1 in Oct 2010 converted to IUI = BFN
IVF #2.2 w ICSI in Dec 2010 = BFN
Met with new RE in new city on 1/31/11.
IVF #3 w ICSI in April 2011. HPT on 5/9 = BFP! Beta #1 on 5/10 (10dp5dt) = 99.4. Beta #2 on 5/12 = 284. First u/s on 5/26. = Fraternal TWINS!
Twin boys born & lost on 8/16/11 at 18w1d due to PPROM & preterm labor.
IVF #4.1 in Jan 2012 converted to IUI on 1/7/12 = BFN
IVF #4.2 w ICSI in Feb 2012. Lupron on 2/10. Stims on 2/18. ER on 2/29- 7R,6F
ET scheduled for 3/5/12- nothing to transfer
Dh seeing new MFI uro & Dh starting meds- June 2012.
IVF #5 in Dec 2012 = BFFN.
IVF #6 planned for Spring 2013. Praying for our take home baby/ies.
**P/SAIF and P/SAL always welcome!**
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Married the love of my life 7/11/09 - Our first baby, Peyton Mark, was born sleeping 10/25/11 at 33 weeks - Our second baby, BFP 2/4/12, welcome to the world Raylan! Holy Moly, BPF 2/4/14, please be safe and sound little one!
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DD #1 passed away in January 2011 at 14 days old due to congenital heart disease
DD#2 lost in January 2012 at 23 weeks due to anhydramnios caused by a placental abruption
We have a safe, we're going to put Nathaniel's in there. I didn't want to put it in our regular filing cabinet because a) I didn't want it to be a constant reminder b) I was afraid at some point we would clean out files and end up destroying it on accident.
We'll put the memory box in there too because the pix the hospital took are in there and except for the one of the feet, the rest are, well- scary. He's very discolored and while he's beautiful to me, I don't want my daughter to stumble upon them someday.
This. Although my husband keeps asking when I'm going to clean the pile off our dresser. I'm planning to put the death and birth certificates in the safe since these are legal documents... not that we will likely need them. The blankets, stuffed animals, and pictures are another story... still trying to figure out what to do with them.
Hugs to all.
IVF #1 w ICSI in July 2010 = BFN
IVF #2.1 in Oct 2010 converted to IUI = BFN
IVF #2.2 w ICSI in Dec 2010 = BFN
Met with new RE in new city on 1/31/11.
IVF #3 w ICSI in April 2011. HPT on 5/9 = BFP!
Beta #1 on 5/10 (10dp5dt) = 99.4. Beta #2 on 5/12 = 284. First u/s on 5/26. = Fraternal TWINS!
Twin boys born & lost on 8/16/11 at 18w1d due to PPROM & preterm labor.
IVF #4.1 in Jan 2012 converted to IUI on 1/7/12 = BFN
IVF #4.2 w ICSI in Feb 2012. Lupron on 2/10. Stims on 2/18. ER on 2/29- 7R,6F
ET scheduled for 3/5/12- nothing to transfer
Dh seeing new MFI uro & Dh starting meds- June 2012.
IVF #5 in Dec 2012 = BFFN.
IVF #6 planned for Spring 2013. Praying for our take home baby/ies.
**P/SAIF and P/SAL always welcome!**