A question about BJs (TMI obv.)

buggywhips

Thought I would be blunt lol.  How are you ladies doing it these days?

Normally if sex seems like too much of a hassle (which it totally is right now) and MH is being a pest I just give him head before we go to sleep.  Without too much of a visual, he lays on his back  and I sit in between his legs and just bend over.  Bending is a PITA.  Plus I have an irrational fear that me doubled over is smooshing the baby.  I know it isn't, but he does let me know when he's uncomfortable-a couple jabs to the ribs gets me sitting straight up.

What ways have you found to be more comfortable?  I don't think I can get away with no sex-no BJs for the next 5 weeks! 

mrsfowler1016

haha! I have run into this too. I typically lay down on my side (think sideways 69, without his reciprocating). That way I'm comfortable and he has easy hand access to me.

Also, there is always the knees and him sitting on the edge of the bed. I'd rather do this but DH thinks it is disrespectful. He's so weird.

uncharch7

i lay on my side, almost forming a T with his body, propping myself up with one arm. 

Moozilla11

Honestly I dislike giving them so I tell DH that my acid reflux is acting up and he is terrified of stomach acid touching his boy parts. I result to hand jobs as my 'get out of jail free' card.

You can always make him stand up and you sit on the edge of the bed? 

buggywhips

masterhairstylist:

Honestly I dislike giving them so I tell DH that my acid reflux is acting up and he is terrified of stomach acid touching his boy parts. I result to hand jobs as my 'get out of jail free' card.

You can always make him stand up and you sit on the edge of the bed? 

We have tried this (but me sitting in a chair) and the angle is kind of weird plus he gets tired standing...he tenses his legs and can't concentrate on the task at hand...then I get grumpy because he's taking so long! lol 

kpsHoneyBear

I'm impressed you can still get down there like that! When Dh is lucky enough to get a bj, I have him stand near the bed or go on his knees on the bed. We have an angled ceiling on one side, so he can brace himself on that when his knees get shaky

Frostycake2011

As PP mentioned, I would try laying on your side. Both DH and I lay on our sides facing eachother. I scoot down(both of our heads are on the same side, where previous person mentioned 69 position) Which I may have to throw out there(seems as DH could reach me alot easier). But try to prop a pillow under your head so you don't have to hold your neck up.

My hubby really seems to enjoy it.No less then when I could be on top hunched over (now, no thanks to belly that is IMPOSSIBLE)

alexvause

I can still lay in most positions if i have a leg propped up. Otherwise he stands while I sit.

Bride2b2004

Ummm, what does it say about my sex life that I opened this post thinking it was about Baby Jogger (BJ) strollers?  Obviously, I am in no position to give any advice =P

kanga47s

You ladies are so nice!  I cannot remember the last time I gave a BJ and I am just fine with that.

sweetie41305

I agree with PP, you ladies are awesome, my DH gets a BJ once in a blue moon, since I strongly dislike it.  However, as mentioned by PP, I freely give hand jobs and that seems to satisfy him for the time being. Haha!

heatherom

right now a BJ is the last thing my bf has the balls to ask for. He says he's gonna chop off his penis anyways, he don't wanna use it anymore. I offered to help him with that.

heatherjh

Him raised on our head board-it's really sturdy and me on my knees between him works. Haven't done it in a bit because I can barely make it up the stairs, so I usually just give him a hand

wmpoplin

Bride2b2004:

Ummm, what does it say about my sex life that I opened this post thinking it was about Baby Jogger (BJ) strollers?  Obviously, I am in no position to give any advice =P

That is too funny!!!

MissBHaven1024

I lay on my side usually, like a 69 position. That way the pressure is off of my belly, but I can still access the goods well. He will still lay on his back though, and I just kind of lay next to him. Last night I did more of what you described and I felt like I was squishing the baby and breaking my ribs at the same time! It wasn't comfy to say the least!

buggywhips

Thanks!  Seems like MH and I are slow on the uptake and haven't adapted very well in this sense!  H will be happy to hear the BJs won't have to end, and I am glad not to squish my baby and deal with the awful reflux that comes with bending.

Lexie Marie

heatherjh:

Haven't done it in a bit because I can barely make it up the stairs, so I usually just give him a hand

All of this :P

mrsfowler1016

sweetie41305:

I agree with PP, you ladies are awesome, my DH gets a BJ once in a blue moon, since I strongly dislike it.  However, as mentioned by PP, I freely give hand jobs and that seems to satisfy him for the time being. Haha!

UO, I love doing it! I have no idea why, I guess it's the control aspect of it? I love making him queasy. I'd do it more often if he'd let me! I have no idea how to give a proper hand job.

mlkauffman

Thanks everyone! DH reads the bump with me and now I have a job to do tonight!  

turner215

We dont like our bed (its old and sags)... so he lays on the couch and I kneel or sit facing it. It keeps him from having to kneel or stand and I can be comfy too.  I love to make my Hubby happy (plus it shuts his crabby but up! lol)... I'll have to try a couple of these other ideas ladies!