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Failed adoption.
I rarely post on here anymore since I mostly check from my ipod and it won't let me post. For everyone on the FB group they already know...but last week, after having our precious 3 month old daughter for almost 11 weeks...we had to take her back to the agency so they could give her to her birthfather. It's a very crazy situation and the agency said with all of their years working in adoption combined (over 100 years combined) they have never seen a case this bad. It's a sad situation that really shocked us and we are just keeping that sweet baby girl in our prayers. It's a dangerous house for her to live in but we just pray her birthmom is able to get her rights back to parent her.
"A man makes a plan in his heart, but God directs his path." - Proverbs 16:9
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Re: Failed adoption.
You have weighed heavily on my heart and mind since I read your post on FB.
My prayers are with you and your sweet baby girl.
I wish there were words I could offer as comfort but I can only imagine that there's little anyone says or does to take your pain away.
Lots of hugs, love and prayers from CA....
b2b Injectable IUI #1 7/25/10 & 7/26/10 = BFP beta 14dpIUI = 133 MC 9/14 at 9 weeks
b2b Injectable IUI #2 12/5/10 & 12/6/10 = BFN
IVF #1 ER 3/28/11 ET 3 embryos 3/31/11= BFN
b2b Injectable IUI#3 6/28/11 & 6/29/11 = BFN
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Submitted Adoption Application on 6/1/2011
Homestudy 7/19/2011
IVF#2 CX due to Adoption Match
We were blessed with our daughter through the gift of adoption
IVF #2.1 ET 2 embryos 2/14/13 7 frosties
i am so, so sorry. lots of thoughts & prayers for you and that baby girl.
((hugs))
just simply devastating. so very sorry for your loss and wishing the best for all of you, and, of course, the precious baby girl.
sending you so so many (((HUGS)))
Thanks to all of ya'll! And Lauren - a special thanks to you and the ATL ladies! I hate to keep repeating this post but I know when we first got Olivia I posted it here and there and everywhere. So I just didn't want anyone wondering why on earth I wasn't posting anymore, etc. I planned to update my blog with the story about why it failed last night but I just did not have the energy. Maybe later this week!
I'm actually doing okay. I returned to work Friday which was the day after we dropped her off and made the 9 hour drive back home. This past weekend was really hard and I have a hard time going in her room...and even though I still cry and miss that little girl I do have a peace in my heart that this is God's plan. I just hate that it had to end this way and I still am baffled that the judge ruled in favor of the birthfather (only because his name was on the birth certificate was he granted custody...yikes). Anyways...we are back on the top of the list at our agency and we are just waiting for our miracle baby.
I'm so sorry to read this. Your heart must be breaking. I can't imagine how difficult this is.
You are in my thoughts and prayers. Please know you can come here to talk it out when you are ready, but don't think you have to if you aren't ready or just don't want to. Take your time and be good to yourself.
DX w/ Protein S Deficiency and unexplained thin lining
Multiple D&C's, Hysterscopy for removal of Scar Tissue, Endometrial Biopsy, 3 BFN FETs, including a year of cancelled due to lining issues (ranging 4.5 to 6.4),
Procedure of arcuate uterus, Shocking lining development...9.2.
Moved on to adoption 3/2011
Homestudy approved! 6/27/2011
Forever matched! 7/17/2012
Precious baby boy born 7/30/2012
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