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I started spotting yesterday a little.  So I tested this morning and it was negative.  I'm almost more in shock than I am sad.  There has to be something else wrong to fail 2 IVFs when they were supposedly 'perfect'. 

 TTC #1 since 6/09
Dx: PCOS and MFI
3 IUIs, 4 IVFs = BFFN
  3rd RE: IVF #5/FET = BFP
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  • I'm so sorry hootie.

    Do you have a WTF scheduled where you can get your questions addressed?

    after 2+ years, 3 failed IUIs, 2 failed IVFs with a c/p
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    I'm so sorry hootie.

    Do you have a WTF scheduled where you can get your questions addressed?

    not yet b/c I didn't get the beta done yet - but I know they'll get me in next week.

     TTC #1 since 6/09
    Dx: PCOS and MFI
    3 IUIs, 4 IVFs = BFFN
      3rd RE: IVF #5/FET = BFP
    14dp5dt=1170 16dp5dt=2573

    1st u/s=
    TWINS!
    It's a Boy and a Girl!

    Born at 34w3d! 
     

  • I am so sorry.  I hope you can get some answers soon.  Thinking of you!!

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    Trying for #1 since May 2010   l   DX ~ Unexplained Infertility June 2011

    IUI #1&2 = BFN; IUI #3 = BFP, m/c @ 6 weeks

    November '11 ~ IVF#1 ~ ER 11/18 (29R, 17F) ~ 5dt of one beautiful blast on 11/23 = BFP!!

    Beta #1 9dp5dt = 116, P4 = 28 ~ Beta #2 13dp5dt = 700 ~ Beta #3 20dp5dt = 9500, P4 = 26

    1st u/s 12/27 - hb of 156!! EDD 8.10.12 :)   **TEAM GREEN!**

    Sweet baby boy born 8.18.12

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    FET #1 - October '13 - c/p   l   FET #2 - December '13 - cancelled :(   l   FET #2.2 - 1.30.14 - BFN

    ~ More testing - hysteroscopy, endometrial biopsy & more b/w - all normal / negative~

    Surprise BFP while waiting on FET #3 ~ beta #1 500; beta #2 1600; first u/s 4/3 - measuring 5w5d, no hb yet!; 2nd u/s 4/10 - hb 132, measuring 6w6d - EDD 11.29.14 :)    **TEAM GREEN!**

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  • Oh hootie, I am so incredibly sorry! I was really hoping this would be it for you.

    I hope that they are able to give you some answers as to what's going on. Please let me know if you need anything. I'll be thinking of you!

    TTC #1 since 6/2010
    8 IUIs - 3 Cancelled cycles - 1 Ectopic Pregnancy with Left tube removal = A broken heart
    IVF #1 : Fall 2012
    15R - 13M - 13F w/ICSI - Transferred 2 day 5 blasts = BFP!!!
    8 Frosties!
    Beta #1: 135, Beta #2: 312, Beta #3: 996
    10/21: Saw one beautiful flickering heartbeat! EDD: 6/12/13
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  • I'm so sorry that you have to go through this again. Getting a negative after IVF has to be one of the worst crushing feelings in the world. 

    I hope your doctor can give you some help, tests, or info.

    Thinking of you, Hootie!  

    (Live in Europe) TTC since 1/2010
  • I'm so sorry to 'hear' this Hootie :( I was really hoping this would be it for you. I hope you're able to get some answers soon.

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  • Oh noooooooooooooo! *sad face times a million*

    Hootie, I am so, so sorry.  I was crossing my fingers for you that the spotting was a good sign, not a bad one.  2 failed IVFs just sucks.  I don't even know another word for it.  Have you called your doctor's office to see what they have to say, or do you still have to wait until Friday?  

    Ugh, again, I am so sorry.  If you want to vent/talk/discuss, feel free to PM me.  ((HUGS))

     

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  • I am so, so sorry.  (((hugs)))  Try to take care of yourself as best you can.

    This is totally not fair and I hope you get some answers to your questions at your WTF.  That said, I also know that "they" say even if things look good sometimes it can take 3 (or 4) cycles to stick, for whatever reason...  I know that doesn't help how you feel right now, and it sucks to fall on that end of the spectrum, but maybe cycle 3 will work if you choose to continue on this path.

    (((hugs)))

    Severe MFI. Me: supposedly all clear but eggs showed vacuoles.

    IVF #1 January 2012, ER Jan 14th: 34R, 27M, 23F. Day 3: 18 embies still strong. Day 5: zero "good," one "fair," the rest "poor." Transferred 3. None made it to blast or to freeze. Jan 28: BFN.

    Lucky IVF #2: Transferred two beautiful day three embies on St. Patrick's Day. BFP on HPT 7dp3dt. Beta 1 (14dpER)=106; Beta 2 (16dpER)=140; Beta 3 (19dpER)=264! First u/s 4.17.

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  • I am so sorry. (((hugs)))
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  • I am so sorry hootie! I hope that someone can give you some answers about why this isn't working when things have been spot on during your cycles. ((Big Big Hugs))
    Trying To Conceive since November 2009
    Dx: PCOS and MFI
    IUI#1-4 all BFN
    IVF#1 January (4R, 4M, 1F) BFP
    Colt was born on 10/27 at 11:50pm. 6lbs and 19 1/4"
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  • I'm so sorry!...IF sucks!! :/
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  • Oh no Hootie!! I am soooo very sorry! ((HUGS))

    IF is so unfair and I hope you get some answers at your WTF. I have been hoping and praying that this cycle was the one for you. Just know we are all here for you!!! Ugh, I don't know what else to say other than I am so sorry!

    TTC since 1/10
    First RE appt 5/11
    Dx w/ Stage IV Endo
    IVF #1 July/Aug 2011. Long lupron protocol ER 8/8 ET 8/11 = BFN
    IVF #2 - Postponed due to cyst/endo. Lap scheduled for 9/11
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  • Oh hootie, I'm so sorry.  Hopefully, your doctor will try to figure out what went wrong and get you some answers.

     ((HUGE HUGS))

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  • Hootie, I'm so so sorry. I was really pulling for you guys. They better have some good answers for you next week. Ugh :(
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  • I am so, so sorry. (((hugs)))
    Dx: Unexplained Infertility

    TTC #1 
    IUI's #1 - #3 Clomid = BFN's, IUI #4 Follistim = BFP
    Grayson arrived via emergency c-section on 7/28/12!

    TTC #2 
    IUI's #1 - #4 Follistim = BFN's
    IVF #1 w/ ICSI + PGS: Lupron/Follistim/Menopur
    ER 4/13 - 19R, 13F, 4 PGS tested embryos, 1 normal
    5/14 FET: BFP. Beta #1: 123, Beta #2: 327, Beta #3: 854
    Cora arrived 1/23/15 via RCS!
  • I'm sorry....
    Anniversary TTC since Oct 2009
    PCOS
    BFP June 3,2012
    Partial Molar Pregnancy :(
    D&C July 12, 2012
    Forced 6 month break.
    BFP January 13, 2013
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  • I'm so sorry. *HUGE HUGS!!*
    Diagonsed PCOS TTC since May 2009
    First M/C December 2010 Second M/C August 2011
    Oct 2011~Second round clomid 50 mg; BFN
    Nov 2011~Third round clomid 50 mg: BFP
    Dec 11- Beta #1 91;Dec 13- Beta #2 186.2
    Dec 27- third miscarriage
    May 25th- Beta #1 369;May 27th- Beta #2 798
    Baby girl born Jan 23, 9lbs 3oz, 21 1/2" long
    May 27th-Beta #1 80; May 29th- Beta #2 304; May 31st- Beta #3 860
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  • Oh C my heart is breaking for you. If you decide to consult with strong please let me know. I am so so sorry hun.

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  • I am so very sorry hottie. Are they going to do more testing? Could it be an egg issue? This is so unfair!
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    DX: MFI - less than 1 million sperm, 26% motility
    DH put on anastrozole to increase counts
    June/July 2011 100 mg Clomid + TS IUI#1 & IUI 2 - BFN :-(
    Forced break due to DH getting spinal surgery in August 2011
    IVF - January 2012: BFN
    FET in April 2012 - BFP at 6dp5dt! Beta #1 at 9dp5dt: 82.5, Beta #2 at 12dp5dt: 352 Beta #3 at 19dp5dt: 6000, saw heartbeat and one little bean at 5W6D!
    After nearly 3 years of waiting our LO was born December 18th 2012!
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  • I'm so sorry hootie

    TTC since 2010

    lots of IUIs and 1 IVF all BFNs

    FET currently on hold

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  • Oh honey. I'm so so sorry. I hope you get the answers you need at your WTF. Big bug hugs. I'm here if you need someone to talk to. This is just not fair. 
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  • I'm so sorry hun. ((hugs))
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  • I'm so so sorry, hon.  ((HUGE HUGS))  After my second failed IVF cycle, I felt the need to get a second opinion.  I ended up doing my third IVF cycle with my original RE.  However, they second opinion RE came up with a few additional items/tweaks that we implemented and I think that helped me out a lot.  IVF BFNs are just so hard.  

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    Me= 37 and DH = 41 

    Dx: DOR, Endo, APA+ (really high beta 2 glycoprotein antibody and high everything else tested), heterozygous MTHFR mutation, positive for lupus anticoagulant, high FSH, low AMH and both tubes blocked (per HSG on 3/8/11)

    IVF #1 - long lupron (with HGH, intralipids, lovenox and BA); 4 retrieved, 3 fertilized; ET 2 blasts and 1 frozen = BFN

    IVF #2 - a version of antagonist with EPP (with HGH, intralipids, lovenox and BA); 6 retrieved, 4 mature, 3 fertilized, 2 blasts and 1 frozen blast transferred on day 5 = BFN.

    IVF #3 April was postponed to May, May was canceled. June/July was canceled. Had a cyst aspiration and then began IVF #3 in August. ER on 8/22; ET on 8/24 with AH. +HPT on 9/5. Beta #1 (11dpo) = 3; Beta #2 (15dpo) = 29; Beta #3 (17dpo) = 60; Beta #4 (19 dpo) = 118. Heartbeat at 6 weeks 6 days =132.  Lil is here!

    TTC#2:  Trigger + TI = BFN; Clomid + Trigger + IUI = BFN.

    IVF #4:  BCP + MDLF + Lovenox = 7R, 1F = Transferred 1 6-cell embryo on day 3 = BFN

    IVF #5:  MDLF + Lovenox = 4R, 1F = Transferred 1 10-cell compacting embryo on day 3 = BFN

    IVF #6:  (New RE):  Long Antagonist November 2014 (transferred two 8 cell grade 1 embryos and froze one blast) = BFN

    FET#1:  BFN

  • I'm so sorry ((hugs))
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  • I'm so sorry - thoughts and prayers for you and big hugs!
    TTC since 7/2010
    Dx: Anovulation, Endo, only one working tube and ovary
    IUIs 1-5 = BFNs
    IVF #1 - ER 7/9 3dt 7/12
    Transferred two beautiful 8 cell embryos
    Beta #1 7/26 = 484 Beta #2 7/28 = 1045
    . U/S 8/10 showed one baby with a strong heartbeat!
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  • (((hugs))) I am thinking of you, Hootie. I am so, so sorry.
    IUIs #1-3 (1x unmedicated, 2x Clomid) = 2 BFNs, 1 m/c at 7w3d
    IUIs #4-6 (injects) = 3 BFNs
    IVF #1 = BFN
    FET #1 = BFN
    FET #2 = BFN
    IVF #2 = BFP, b/g twins lost at 20w due to partial abruption/PPROM
    IVF #3 = c/p 5w2d
    Long-shot Clomid/Prednisone cycle before next IVF = BFP, our beautiful, healthy girl born 6/26/13!
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    TTC again March 2014
    FET #3 - May/June 2014
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    all embryos arrested before xfer - back to the drawing board...
    IVF #4 - July/August 2014 
    beta 1 (11dp3dt) 220, beta 2 (13dp3dt) 671, beta 3 (19dp3dt) 10762
  • I'm so sorry :(
    TTC Babypants with low motility and low morphology since 6/2010.

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  • I'm so sorry Hootie!  Huge hugs for you today!

    TTC since 5/2010
    DX with Diminished Ovarian Reserve - AMH of 1.1 - 7/2011; AMH of .42 8/2012
    BFP 9/1/10-M/C confirmed 9/8/10-Methotrexate 10/6/10
    IUI #1 (w/clomid)-9/5/11-BFN ; IUI #2 (w/clomid)-10/5/11 - BFP - 11/1/12-No sac seen; 11/2/11 and 11/9/11-Methotrexate 
    IVF #1- ER 2/2; ET 2/5;-Two 8 cell embryos transfered = BFFN
    Surprise BFP - 5/7/12
    U/S on 6/8/12 - H/B at 128 BPM; U/S on 6/14/12 @ 9wks-No H/B-D&C on 6/17/12
    IVF 2.0- ER 10/17; ET 10/20-One 12 cell, one 10 cell and one 8 cell embryo transfered
    BFP!   11/16/12 U/S- Two nuggets with perfect heartbeats! EDD 7/10/13

     

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  • I'm so sorry :( I hope you can get some answers
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  • I'm so sorry.
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  • Aw hootie, I am so sorry! I hope you can get some answers soon! Hugs to you!
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  • I am so sorry hon.  I hope you get answers at your WTF appt.

    ((hugs))


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  • I'm so sorry, hootie. (((hugs)))
    me 26 / DH 29
    TTC#1 since 5/2010 (charting, AO)
    2/2011: DX: PCOS, hypothyroid (1700 mg Metformin, 50 mcg Synthroid)
    8/10/2011: First RE appt.
    9/2011 & 10/2011: Clomid + Ovidrel + TI = BFN
    11/2011: Femara + Ovidrel + TI = BFN
    1/2012: Femara + Follistim + Ovidrel + TI = BFP! (Praise the Lord!)
    ?3/23/2012: Graduated from the RE... moving on to a regular OB!?
    ?10/29/2012: Our precious baby boy was born via emergency C-section. 5 lbs, 13 oz; 18" long ?

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  • Oh no, so sorry to hear.  I hope you get some answers.
    TTC with PCOS since November 2009
    IUI#1 Femara/Ovidrel (cd 3-7) = BFP, m/c
    IUI#2 Femara/Ovidrel (cd 5-9) = BFN
    IUI#3 Femara/Ovidrel (cd 3-7) = BFP!
    beta #1 11/23 = 270, P4 = 75
    beta #2 11/28 = 2055
    Our daughter E was born 7/29/2012!
    Surprise, our 2nd daughter P was born 5/22/14!
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  • That really sucks! I'm so sorry :(  
  • I'm so sorry ((hugs))
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  • so sorry hootie

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  • I am so sorry hootie!  My heart broke when I saw your title of your post.  (((HUGS)))
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  • Oh Hootie... I'm so so sorry to hear this. This is all so unfair and so hard to understand why things happen the way they do. I hope you get some answers and a new plan at your WTF.  ((HUGS))
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    Beta #1 = 153, Beta #2 = 269, Beta #3 = 675
    1st U/S = TWINS!! EDD 12/29/12
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