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XP- Update on my DE cycle (not great)

https://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/59985269.aspx

Here's a link to the IF update.  It's not going as well as I expected.  I'll know more tomorrow.

 

4/08 BFP resulted in m/c
8/08 BFP resulted in m/c
3/09 Polyp removed and dx MTHFR (both copies)
6 Clomid cycles, all BFN
5/09 IUI#1 with Clomid=BFN
6/09 IUI#2 with Clomid=BFN
8/09 IUI#3 with Clomid=BFN
IVF#1 = BFN
IVF#2 = BFN
IVF#3 ET 2 Grade A blasts 11/16/11
Beta #1: 485
Beta #2: 2,495
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Re: XP- Update on my DE cycle (not great)

  • Sending hugs, I'm sorry this cycle isn't going as well as her previous cycles. I hope with the change in meds you can get a litte bit higher number then what the dr is seeing right now.

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  • I saw your post of IF - I am so sorry that you are being faced with this.  I just can't believe it.  I do think it is really hard to say what the cut off should be as far as how many eggs to go with.  People have had success with 1 or 2 embies available at transfer and only a few more eggs at retrieval, but obviously it makes more sense that the more there are the better chance there could be. 

    I saw the number 10 mentioned, maybe that is a good number to say is the lower limit.  I will never end up with 10 eggs myself, but those are mine, I'm not paying for someone else's.  I assume they are doing the same protocol as her previous cycles and she is just responding differently this time - ? 

    I guess these would be questions I had as well - if you cancel this cycle are you going to use the same donor or look at someone else?  If you are still going to use her (and based on her past response that makes sense) are they going to stim her differently or the same?  I think that information is important to know. 

    I just hope that she has a ton of eggs at her next check and that you don't have to sorry about this at all.  ((((hugs))))   

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  • I'm so sorry Luna! I hope that you get a better idea of what you should do tomorrow. This is a difficult situation and the unknown of what is "enough" makes it tougher! HUGS!
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  • I am so so sorry.  Big ((((HUGS))))

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  • I'm sorry Luna. I wish I had good advice. FX that it works out!

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  • I am super bummed things aren't looking too hot right now. This isn't your fault though. It's just a shitty situation. I really hope the adjustment in her meds helps a ton and you end up swimming in embies. ::hugs::
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  • I'm so sorry Luna, I hope the RE can guide you in the right direction. Big hugs.
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  • I'm so sorry, Luna.  I hope things turn around.  :-(
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  • My heart is breaking for you, Luna.  I just don't know what to say other than there is a change more eggs are hiding in there.  Hugs. 
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  • I am so happy you are updating us, but I really wish it were better news.  I am so sorry this is becoming more sh!tty for you.  I hope everything will take a turn for the better and they will get you some good eggs.  FX crossed for you hun.  Sending you big hugs and lots of love.
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  • Fvck. I'm sorry Luna.  I hope things change with the med change and look better.
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  • Ugh, I'm so sorry Luna. Sending you tons of (HUGS).

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  • I'm sorry! I don't have any advice, but i would probably go with my RE's recommendation.  I hope this ends up working out in the end!  Huge hugs!

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