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Childless not by choice
Surrogate?
I'm new to this actual board, but I was wondering if any of you are considering a surrogate? We are using one for this pregnancy and wanted to see if someone else is in the same situation.
Mom to 2 beautiful girls, 3 yrs and 22 months old. My 2nd was born at 32 weeks due to Rhogam failure/severe complications from Rh disease and is our miracle. She has bilateral auditory neuropathy and a cochlear implant, activated 4/5/2012 at 19 months.
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Re: Surrogate?
"It's a child, not a cheeto" Thanks mmariluh!
"Ew. I've read all of two posts from you, and you stink like rotting garbage."
Yes, seriously. A lot of CFNBC people use surrogates. Honest question.
This is the end of the line board. We can't make babies with our genitals and we have no funds for adoption, treatments, or surrogates.
We are literally child free.
People who use surrogates have children and are then no longer child free.
"It's a child, not a cheeto" Thanks mmariluh!
"Ew. I've read all of two posts from you, and you stink like rotting garbage."
Yes, please read the description at the top of the board. This board is for those who are unable to have children at all. Hence the name, "child-free". So, there wouldn't be anyone here using a surrogate. You would be better to post on the Pregnant after IF board.
Hi. You're on the wrong board... but I'm sure you've figured that out by now!
You already have two kids so I'm not sure why you thought this was the board to post on. I'm not trying to be snarky... maybe our board description doesn't state things clearly enough... maybe our name could be improved... if you have a suggestion I'd be curious to hear what you have to say.
I'm popping my zit on you because of your stupidity and your tickers.
Awe...did you make up a fake name just to call us bitches? You are too sweet! I bet you went on over to the miscarriage board and called all those ladies bitches too. Ya know for getting upset with people that go and post about their healthy pregnancies to woman who have lost their babies.
Now I can only speak for myself but...I feel that getting cancer at the age of 20, going through 3 rounds of chemo, losing my hair, breaking my weak bones just by walking up stairs, losing a few teeth, and oh guess what...now being infertile entitles me to be a *** to whom ever I feel is being an idiot.
Doesn't mean I go around being hateful but in all fairness...she stepped into MY board, MY saving grace, MY only outlet to people who can begin to understand what I am feeling.
So yes just as a female dog would stand to protect her home, THIS B!TCH acted in the correct manor.
Nope, the name is very real, and I don't go around stalking message boards to call women bitches. I stumbled upon a message board where EVERYONE was acting like a *** to one person just because she asked a simple question. She didn't deserve to be treated like an "idiot" or be told she was asking a stupid question...a simple "wrong message board hun" would have been just fine, but you all acted like it was some huge sin that she said something that offended you. Yes, I understand terrible things happened in your life and now you can't have children and that is something that no one can understand unless they are going through it, but your wrong if you think its ok to treat people the way you guys did. She didn't intend to come to YOUR board, YOUR saving grace and ruin your day. AND then be treated like ***. She simply stated what point in life SHE is at and asked a question.
Other people have gone through things that you have gone through AND worse. Maybe, she is lucky enough to have children and maybe not, but you don't know all that she has gone through either...so why treat her like she is stupid and like you can treat her however you want because of your past?
The poster has two children and is currently expecting twins. She was asking if anyone had anyexperience with surrogacy. When it was pointed out that she was on the wrong board she then went on to say (which shows she fully knew where she was posting) that plenty of CFNBC people chose surrogacy. This is not a "come ask us to tell you all about our failed attempts to become parents because we love talking about it so much" board and to suggest that we accept to be treated as suchis asinine and far biitchier than anything that was said in response to the op.
I suppose I could have gone with "you stupid procreating whore- can you not read or does surrogacy have a little known side effect of being obtuse?" Then your rail against angry biitches might have been a bit more appropriate.
"It's a child, not a cheeto" Thanks mmariluh!
"Ew. I've read all of two posts from you, and you stink like rotting garbage."