G has developed this awesome habit of wanting to feed for an hour plus during the middle of the night... and sometimes during the day too. He continues to give long nutritive sucks off and on during this whole time, mixed with some short little fluttery sucks.
I mentioned this to MIL today and she told me that after 15-20 minutes of nursing, a baby has drained your breast and they are just comfort nursing past that point.
Truth or half truth? If this is true, how the heck do I get my kid to stop wanting to eat for so long? He won't take a paci during these marathons and he starts fussing/crying when I try to unlatch him.
Re: Is this true? BFing length of time
I think it's true... I had the same problem (except I wasn't offering a paci) and told my pedi about it and he said that after 15 minutes (on each breast) the baby has drained all the milk. I think I might just over produce though because mine are never drained after only 15 minutes!
That being said I don't know what you could do to soothe him after the 30 minutes are up... My LO has been taking the MAMs paci and occassionally NUK. Have you tried a variety of pacis? If he wants to comfort suck there has to be one out there he'll take! Good luck!
I'd call this a half-truth. Most babies, especially as they're older, get more efficient at emptying your breast. I don't know if that's true of one-month-olds, however, and the fact that he alternates between little fluttery sucks and big swigs sounds like he's still getting let-downs out of you. I think if he won't take a paci, he either still wants to eat, or he doesn't like the paci you have.
DS has been doing this almost non-stop from around 9 to midnight for the last several days. I also think he likes to comfort suck but he doesn't seem crazy about the Soothie pacifier, either. I eventually top him off with 2 oz. of formula because it seems to be the only thing that makes him happy besides living on me, and I need to shower/get ready for bed at SOME point.
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He takes a Soothie during the day sometimes but has a hard time keeping it in for more than 5 minutes unless we are holding it for him. He just shakes his head and screams when we try to switch it out for my boob at night.
He definitely still sounds like he is swallowing/ long sucking right up till the end but I wasn't sure if he was somehow faking himself out and just swallowing air? He has had A LOT of issues with gas. Like keeping us up for an hour with gas pains, trying every gas drop, gripe water, shoulder hold in the book!
I thought about topping him off with formula to try and satisfy him, but with his gassy issues I worry the formula could make matters worse.
Its true. Thats why if LO wants to comfort nurse at night (waking after a loud noise or after eating) i offer her the same breast that she last fed on so she doesnt over eat and spit up.
If you think your DS is still hungry then switch sides, if not then by all means stay on the one side. As far as how to get him to stop...i try to see when Pearl is asleep and use my pinkie to break her suction then pat her back and ssh her.
Ditto to this about being half-true. I also agree with PP who recommending offering the other breast. I'd say to try and hand express to see if YOU can get anything out of that breast because if so that puppy hasn't been drained. The real question here is are you uncomfortable with him comfort sucking. Some moms don't like it and some want to provide that. It seems like staying up to let him nurse will help you sleep longer in the long run if nothing else will soothe him. I found side-lying nursing to be helpful for nights so I drift in and out of sleep and she can still nurse.
Agreed on it being half-truth. also, I was told your breasts are never truly empty because you are constantly making more milk, so LO may still be getting drops the whole time
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