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my baby died yesterday at 21w

dandywarholdandywarhol member
in Late Term and Child Loss

Sylvie was born and died yesterday at 21w due to a placental abruption. She was born alive and stayed with us for almost 45 minutes.  I cherish each second that I held her, studied her, and loved her. 

I can't imagine life without her.  I feel so empty, both physically and emotionally.  I miss her so much and want her back in me.  

BFP #1 - Missed M/C, D&C 3.21.11

BFP #2 - Sylvie V. Q. born and died on 10.28.11 at 21w. Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers

BFP #3 - Evie V. Q. Fetal demise @ 16w. DC 7.8.12
Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers

BFP  #4 - Beatrix V. Q. Born 6.2.13 at 23w6d.
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  • lovemymaddylovemymaddy
    I am so, so sorry for your loss. You WILL get through this. We are all here to help you. I'm glad you found the board but so sorry that you have to be here, but we will be with you, every step of the way.  ((hugs))
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  • illinigalillinigal member
    Huge hugs.  I'm so sorry for your loss.  I hope you find comfort and peace.
    TTC #1 since October 2008. Dealing with MFI.
    IVF #1 w ICSI in July 2010 = BFN
    IVF #2.1 in Oct 2010 converted to IUI = BFN
    IVF #2.2 w ICSI in Dec 2010 = BFN
    Met with new RE in new city on 1/31/11.
    IVF #3 w ICSI in April 2011. HPT on 5/9 = BFP!
    Beta #1 on 5/10 (10dp5dt) = 99.4. Beta #2 on 5/12 = 284. First u/s on 5/26. = Fraternal TWINS!
    Twin boys born & lost on 8/16/11 at 18w1d due to PPROM & preterm labor.
    IVF #4.1 in Jan 2012 converted to IUI on 1/7/12 = BFN
    IVF #4.2 w ICSI in Feb 2012. Lupron on 2/10. Stims on 2/18. ER on 2/29- 7R,6F
    ET scheduled for 3/5/12- nothing to transfer :(
    Dh seeing new MFI uro & Dh starting meds- June 2012.
    IVF #5 in Dec 2012 = BFFN.
    IVF #6 planned for Spring 2013. Praying for our take home baby/ies.
    **P/SAIF and P/SAL always welcome!**

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  • AmyG2bAmyG2b member
    I am very sorry for your loss. I know there's nothing that will take the pain away, but we all understand the feelings you have or will have. We are here for you.
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  • cookie_queencookie_queen
    I'm so sorry you are going through this. ((hugs))
    TTC with severe MFI since 9/08 IVF w/ ICSI #1 May/June 2010= BFP twins
    Callan George and Bennett Charles born and died 11/7/10
    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers
    FET #1 April 2011= BFN
    FET #2 July 2011= no transfer because my lining sucked
    FET #3 February 2012= BFP! 1st beta 9dp5dt=314 2nd beta 11dp5dt=977 1st U/S 3/20 Twins- Heart rates of 111 and 138 Pregnancy Ticker
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  • hannahlb2hannahlb2
    I'm so sorry for your loss. The hurt probably won't go away for a long time :(.
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  • magdalina.hmagdalina.h member
    I am so sorry for your loss.
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  • hewinkedhewinked
    I am so very sorry for your loss.  This board is amazing, and I hope you find some comfort here.  It is definitely rough times ahead, I won't lie, but you will get through it, day by day and sometimes second by second.  (((hugs)))
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  • krysiahamatykrysiahamaty
    I am so sorry for your loss. I'm glad you had 45 minutes to cherish your daughter. Welcome to the board. Though I hate that we are all here, the ladies here are wonderful and supportive.
    TTC since November 2009. DH diagnosed with sperm antibodies. IUI #1 = BFN IUI #2 = BFN On the road to IVF.... Egg Retrieval Jan 21, 2011 16 eggs retrieved Egg transfer Jan 26, 2011 Only 2 viable eggs transferred. 1 IVF, 1 ICSI IVF #1 = BFP :-) 10/3/11 No heart beat at 38 weeks: Our baby Jack became an angel 12/14/11 = natural BFP Rainbow baby Samantha Jacklyn born8/8/12. Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers
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  • DesiraeSunshineDesiraeSunshine
    Im so sorry. The time I spent with my babies is one of my most treasured memories.
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  • SockMonkeySamSockMonkeySam member

    I am so sorry for your loss of your daughter. ((HUGS))

     


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  • mrssopranomrssoprano member
    I am so sorry. My baby died at 21 weeks too, but we don't know why. Just surround yourself with friends and family right now and grieve. I'm glad you found this board for support.
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  • pandabearloverpandabearlover

    I lost my son at 21 weeks in February.  You will survive this and become a stronger person because of it.  I am so happy you had 45 minutes with your daughter- you will cherish those memories forever.

    Hugs 

    Momma to 2 sweet girls here on earth and a precious baby boy in heaven
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  • mdluv21mdluv21
    huge ((hugs))  I am very sorry for your loss.
    TTC since 07/2009
    Me: PCOS, Blood/Immune Issues DH: Low all 3
    Jun.- Sep. 2010 IUI#1-#3 = BFN
    Oct. 2010 = IVF #1 = B/G Twins (passed away Feb. 2011)
    May 2011 = Myomectomy and trans-abdominal cerclage (TAC)
    Sep. 2011 = Surprise BFP = C/P
    Feb. 2012 = sFET #1 = BFN
    Feb.2012 = Hail Mary IUI #4 = BFN
    April/May 2012 = FET #2 w/our last two embies = BFP (Please let this be it!)
    Beta #1 8dp5/6dt = 234 Beta #2 10dp5/6dt = 695 Beta #3 12dp5/6dt = 1796 Beta #4 17dp5/6dt = 17,888 U/S #1 May 17, 2012 = Twins
    Baby B's heart stop beating at 9 weeks 5 days
    Our little miracle baby is a boy. :)

    Baby Boy Owen and Baby Girl Avery were born too early on Feb. 13, 2011 due to a pedunculated fibroid, incompetent cervix and suspected placental abruption.
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    "What the heart has once owned and had, it shall never lose." - Henry Ward Beecher
    SAIF/PAIF Welcome
    Lots of love and luck to my PAIF/3T/IF Veteran ladies, especially my dear friend Zookie. Congrats to Papps, Teach84 and Starbuck on their little ones.
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  • dandywarholdandywarhol member
    Thank you all for your kind words.  While I'm sorry that any of you had to experience anything similar to what we are going through, it is comforting to know that I'm not alone. 
    BFP #1 - Missed M/C, D&C 3.21.11

    BFP #2 - Sylvie V. Q. born and died on 10.28.11 at 21w. Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers

    BFP #3 - Evie V. Q. Fetal demise @ 16w. DC 7.8.12
    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers

    BFP  #4 - Beatrix V. Q. Born 6.2.13 at 23w6d.
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  • ruthymusneyruthymusney member

    imagedandywarhol:
    Thank you all for your kind words.  While I'm sorry that any of you had to experience anything similar to what we are going through, it is comforting to know that I'm not alone. 

    You're definetly not alone.  ((Huge Hugs)) I'm so so sorry for your loss.

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  • pb127pb127 member
    I am so very sorry for the passing of Sylvie. I hope you'll find some comfort here, welcome. ((((hugs))))
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  • Auki13Auki13 member
    I am so sorry for you loss, and I hope you find the support here on this board that you need.  Your daughter was loved and cherished in her short life by you and I hope you can find some comfort in that fact.  (((HUGS)))
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  • butterfly843butterfly843
    Sending hugs, I'm so sorry for your loss.

    Jenn

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    IVF#1 BFN IVF#2 BFP, loss at 19 weeks FET#1 BFN IVF#3 BFP, m/c FET#2 BFN

    Missing our twins Zachary and Madison, lost at 19 weeks on 11/13/09, edd 4/9/10

    BFP 7/17/10, m/c 7/25/10, edd 3/25/11

    Ectopic, lost left tube 4/20/11, edd 12/6/11

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  • CaroleeCarolee member
    I'm so sorry for your loss of your sweet Sylvie.  Welcome to the board.
    Mom to Eliott Alexander, born sleeping at 37 weeks on 8/13/10. Most of us only dream of angels - I held one in my arms.
    BFP #2 - EDD 2/26/12 M/C 6/28/11 @ 5w2d
    BFP #3 - EDD 4/7/12 M/C 8/2/11 @ 4w2d
    Too beautiful for this earth
    BFP #4 - EDD 12/09/12, Lucille arrived 11/26/12
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  • Mjmksb04Mjmksb04 member
    I am so sorry for your loss.
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    DD #1 passed away in January 2011 at 14 days old due to congenital heart disease
    DD#2 lost in January 2012 at 23 weeks due to anhydramnios caused by a placental abruption
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