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Results are in

krysiahamatykrysiahamaty
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We received the autopsy and generic test results today. Everything was normal. My baby boy was perfect, inside and out. So why the fvck was he taken from me??? I'm so sad.
TTC since November 2009. DH diagnosed with sperm antibodies. IUI #1 = BFN IUI #2 = BFN On the road to IVF.... Egg Retrieval Jan 21, 2011 16 eggs retrieved Egg transfer Jan 26, 2011 Only 2 viable eggs transferred. 1 IVF, 1 ICSI IVF #1 = BFP :-) 10/3/11 No heart beat at 38 weeks: Our baby Jack became an angel 12/14/11 = natural BFP Rainbow baby Samantha Jacklyn born8/8/12. Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers
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Re: Results are in

  • johnnys junejohnnys june member
    Oh hun..*hugs* I know the feeling.
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  • pb127pb127 member

    (((hugs))) and thinking of you. It's not fair.

    Are you going to try a perinatologist to review your chart to see if they have any tests they'd like run on you?  I had a huge panel run on me after DS passed and it all came up negative/normal but it helped me a little.

    ETA: I hope that wasn't offensive. I'm so sorry if it was, I don't want to hurt you.

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  • krysiahamatykrysiahamaty
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    (((hugs))) and thinking of you. It's not fair.

    Are you going to try a perinatologist to review your chart to see if they have any tests they'd like run on you?  I had a huge panel run on me after DS passed and it all came up negative/normal but it helped me a little.

    ETA: I hope that wasn't offensive. I'm so sorry if it was, I don't want to hurt you.

    No offense taken at all!! Thank you. I'm not sure what I'll do next. I see my doctor again on November 15th so I'll ask him.

     

    TTC since November 2009. DH diagnosed with sperm antibodies. IUI #1 = BFN IUI #2 = BFN On the road to IVF.... Egg Retrieval Jan 21, 2011 16 eggs retrieved Egg transfer Jan 26, 2011 Only 2 viable eggs transferred. 1 IVF, 1 ICSI IVF #1 = BFP :-) 10/3/11 No heart beat at 38 weeks: Our baby Jack became an angel 12/14/11 = natural BFP Rainbow baby Samantha Jacklyn born8/8/12. Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers
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  • mrssopranomrssoprano member
    I understand your anger and frustration. My little girl was by all accounts healthy as well. It doesn't make sense. I want to have more testing from a perinatologist, but my OB acted like it wasn't necessary. I'd be interested to hear what your dr says. ((hugs))
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  • krysiahamatykrysiahamaty
    I will keep you ladies posted. Big hugs to all. Don't know what I would do if I couldn't vent to you ladies. :-(
    TTC since November 2009. DH diagnosed with sperm antibodies. IUI #1 = BFN IUI #2 = BFN On the road to IVF.... Egg Retrieval Jan 21, 2011 16 eggs retrieved Egg transfer Jan 26, 2011 Only 2 viable eggs transferred. 1 IVF, 1 ICSI IVF #1 = BFP :-) 10/3/11 No heart beat at 38 weeks: Our baby Jack became an angel 12/14/11 = natural BFP Rainbow baby Samantha Jacklyn born8/8/12. Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers
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  • butterfly843butterfly843
    ((Hugs))

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  • CaroleeCarolee member
    Big (((HUGS))).  I know how you feel - our results came back normal also and it totally added insult to injury.
    Mom to Eliott Alexander, born sleeping at 37 weeks on 8/13/10. Most of us only dream of angels - I held one in my arms.
    BFP #2 - EDD 2/26/12 M/C 6/28/11 @ 5w2d
    BFP #3 - EDD 4/7/12 M/C 8/2/11 @ 4w2d
    Too beautiful for this earth
    BFP #4 - EDD 12/09/12, Lucille arrived 11/26/12
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  • roxyttandmeroxyttandme member
    I am so sorry, hun! Sometimes not knowing can be worse than knowing.... (((hugs)))
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  • hewinkedhewinked
    So many hugs coming to you.  I am just convinced something was wrong with Adam from the get-go.  All the testing at the hospital and the autopsy showed nothing.  I don't get it.
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  • illinigalillinigal member
    Huge hugs. I understand your confusion when everything was perfect. There are just some cruel things I'll never understand. Continued T&P are with you.
    TTC #1 since October 2008. Dealing with MFI.
    IVF #1 w ICSI in July 2010 = BFN
    IVF #2.1 in Oct 2010 converted to IUI = BFN
    IVF #2.2 w ICSI in Dec 2010 = BFN
    Met with new RE in new city on 1/31/11.
    IVF #3 w ICSI in April 2011. HPT on 5/9 = BFP!
    Beta #1 on 5/10 (10dp5dt) = 99.4. Beta #2 on 5/12 = 284. First u/s on 5/26. = Fraternal TWINS!
    Twin boys born & lost on 8/16/11 at 18w1d due to PPROM & preterm labor.
    IVF #4.1 in Jan 2012 converted to IUI on 1/7/12 = BFN
    IVF #4.2 w ICSI in Feb 2012. Lupron on 2/10. Stims on 2/18. ER on 2/29- 7R,6F
    ET scheduled for 3/5/12- nothing to transfer :(
    Dh seeing new MFI uro & Dh starting meds- June 2012.
    IVF #5 in Dec 2012 = BFFN.
    IVF #6 planned for Spring 2013. Praying for our take home baby/ies.
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  • ruthymusneyruthymusney member

    I am so so sorry!! ((big hugs)) 

    This is possibly a stupid question, but could it have been a chord accident? I'm sorry if that's an inappropriate question, but I don't know your whole story, so I was curious if they even considered that.

     ((big hugs again)) 

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  • jgengo0jgengo0 member

    I'm so very sorry. we never received any answers either, the unknown is the worst.

    *hugs*

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  • Cercamom2011Cercamom2011 member
    I'm sorry the results were not what you hoped.  (((HUGS)))
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  • krysiahamatykrysiahamaty
    imageruthymusney:

    I am so so sorry!! ((big hugs)) 

    This is possibly a stupid question, but could it have been a chord accident? I'm sorry if that's an inappropriate question, but I don't know your whole story, so I was curious if they even considered that.

     ((big hugs again)) 

     No. They said the night that they did the surgery the cord was not the issue.  

    TTC since November 2009. DH diagnosed with sperm antibodies. IUI #1 = BFN IUI #2 = BFN On the road to IVF.... Egg Retrieval Jan 21, 2011 16 eggs retrieved Egg transfer Jan 26, 2011 Only 2 viable eggs transferred. 1 IVF, 1 ICSI IVF #1 = BFP :-) 10/3/11 No heart beat at 38 weeks: Our baby Jack became an angel 12/14/11 = natural BFP Rainbow baby Samantha Jacklyn born8/8/12. Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers
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  • mrssopranomrssoprano member
    OP- I just wanted to tell you that I spoke to a good family friend who is an OB today and she said she absolutely would not TTC again without a consult from a maternal-fetal medicine specialist. She said a lot of times there are no answers, but it's best to leave no stone unturned. I am going to ask my OB for a referral to an MFM on Monday.
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  • mrsnapaluchmrsnapaluch
    I'm so sorry. HUGS
    Avery Alexander Napaluch born sleeping October 24, 2011 at 32 weeks.
    He was 4lbs. 9oz. and 17&1/2in. He was absolute perfection.

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