completely naive here...what are the financial requirements to get a positive home study? we are not wealthy and don't even know if adoption is a possibility for us.
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Re: financial requirements for home study
I'm not quite sure what you're asking. Adoption can be expensive, but there are a lot of options out there. You can do foster/adopt, which is very low cost, but not for everyone. You can do domestic adoption through an agency (typically the most $), a law firm (less $ but more legwork from you) or a facilitator (if they're legal in your state).
The way you write it, it makes it sound like you pay a certain amount for a "passing grade" on the homestudy. There are fees involved, but the point of the HS is to ensure that you would be suitable parents for a child. Most places will want to see your financials, but you don't have to be rich to adopt. You have to be able to afford the fees, and to show you could afford to raise a child. Which your average middle class couple can.
I would look around at agencies/facilitators/lawyers and get an idea of their fee schedules and if any of them would work for you/with you. Some charge on a sliding scale. Some religious-based agencies have lower fees. Etc.
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