TTC After a Loss

Pretty soon I'm not going to have any FB friends that aren't blocked :(

So, right after we found out about mc, I had to block several people on facebook. I didn't want to get on there and see pic of their new babies, or status updates on how their pg was going. I also didn't want people spouting off advice to me (which some of my friends are very good at doing, and I'm usually good at just letting it go, but not right now). So tonight I'm scrolling through and see a post about a friend who has been taking pg tests because she's paranoid that she's pg since so many of her friends are. I don't know why it's bothering me so bad. I do know that she told me that she felt done having kids not even 3 months agom so maybe that's why it's bothering me. I'm just being jealous right now. I want my baby :( Just went I think I'm doing better something like this sets me back.

Pretty soon I'm only going to be friends with old women on FB! I hope these feelings go away sooner than later. I want to be happy for my friends, and I want them to be happy for me, if we get pg again.

Emotions SUCK!

Re: Pretty soon I'm not going to have any FB friends that aren't blocked :(

  • I feel the same way sometimes.  If you feel your list is getting too trim, you can add me!
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  • I have a bunch of people hidden too. It's just the way it works. I'm sorry that you're feeling down but there really is nothing wrong with old women. They won't be announcing any pregnancies. Smile
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  • I havn't blocked all of the pregnant ladies on my friends list but i should because I know how you feel. I'll be having a great day and get on facebook and see something like my unmarried teenage cousin upset she hasnt had baby #2 yet!?! So many annoying updates out there! ((Hugs))
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  • I feel the same way too... I've actually blocked my sister from my newsfeed because she is due in 8 weeks and she constantly complains about her pregnancy symptoms on FB (heartburn, tired, swollen ankles)... I just want to scream at her and tell her to be SO thankful for those symptoms because right now, that is all I want!

     

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  • I'm glad to know that I'm not the only one who does this!  I only block my pregnant friends who complain too much. 

    I have learned over time, that the girls who post too much during their pregnancies are the same girls who post too much about their newborns, too.  Better to block them early on, I think!

     Sorry you're dealing with it, too :(

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