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i need strength tomorrow

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We have to go to a birthday party tomorrow and there will be a baby boy there. Not sure how to get through it without losing it.
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  • pandabearloverpandabearlover
    I'll be thinking of you.  It is so hard.  Hugs
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  • krysiahamatykrysiahamaty

    Ugh I am sorry. Good luck. I honestly just keep my distance and try to avoid the baby as much as possible.

    Sorryou have to deal with that. Sending you strong vibes. 

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  • ruthymusneyruthymusney member
    I'm so sorry. I just had up be around a girl that I've been pregnant and it was hard to talk to her. She's having a girl at the beginning of December. I hate to act like that to people though. :(
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  • UsafWifey09UsafWifey09 member

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    I am so sorry. I am sure they will understand if you choose not to go. I avoided anything that I knew would have me around babies. Its hard to go through.

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  • kate6267kate6267
    I' m so sorry! its so hard, If you lose it excuse yourself and take a few minutes and then come back. Its ok to cry its hard! ((((HUGS))))
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  • hewinkedhewinked
    (((hugs)))  We'll all be thinking of you.
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  • easjer05easjer05 member

    I hope it goes better than you can believe when trying to prepare.  My experience is usually that I've built up much more in my mind than anything and when I get there, I wonder why I thought it would be so awful.  I hope that is the case for you.

    Thinking of you.


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  • starrkitten89starrkitten89
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    I hope it goes better than you can believe when trying to prepare.  My experience is usually that I've built up much more in my mind than anything and when I get there, I wonder why I thought it would be so awful.  I hope that is the case for you.

    Thinking of you.



    This is me too.I hope it isn't as bad as you think,and if you lose it,you lose it.So many ((hugs))

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  • sandykinssandykins member
    Thank you ladies. It feels so good to have support from a group od women that know where I am coming from. Dh is trying to convince me not to go. I feel like I need to do this. This is the first time I will be seeing my extended family since losing Connor. The next time will be Christmas day. I sort of want to get the first time over with so that I don't have to deal with it on Christmas. Get what I mean? I need your vibes.
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  • johnnys junejohnnys june member
    *hugs*  I missed this last night...but I hope all went well today.  One step is better than no steps.
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  • CaroleeCarolee member
    Big (((HUGS))). I hope it went ok. I still dread baby showers and have skipped out on a few.
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  • butterfly843butterfly843
    ((hugs)) I hope it went ok today.

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  • pb127pb127 member

    I hope it went okay today, whether or not you decided to go. ((hugs))

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