I think I just got deleted from the Facebook Group

jknit

I went to look today, and the group is gone from my homepage.  What's up with that!?!

babygray2

I am too...I was just going there to post something too...guess I wasn't quick enough to respond...I would like to be added back!

Amzy

For those who got deleted, they were deleted because they never post. If you want to be added back you will need to add an admin....Allison, Amy or Aubrey and then they can add you back. But just curious if you don't post or haven't in a long time why do you need to be part of the group?

erikawvu

Yep there were multiple posts about if you don't post often (or at all) then you need to either show you are a part of the group or be deleted.

jknit

terribly sorry I didn't post over the last two weeks.  my son just had surgery and I had better things to take care of.

heylee

The admins were just cleaning up the board a bit from people they've never seen post. You can get readded. There was a document posted for people to check in just to see who was around not to be removed. Hope your son has a quick recovery!

adoubleu12

jknit:

terribly sorry I didn't post over the last two weeks.  my son just had surgery and I had better things to take care of.

I think it may have been a mistake that you got deleted? Maybe someone spelled your name wrong when searching for your activity, and didn't think that you posted?  I can add you back in to the group if you would like. 

adoubleu12

babygray2:

I am too...I was just going there to post something too...guess I wasn't quick enough to respond...I would like to be added back!

You only have 3 posts on here (Two of them about the FB group) and you have NEVER posted on the FB group, besides putting your name in the document.  We made it clear that we do NOT want lurkers, I am sorry, but I don't think the FB group is for you. 

erikawvu

Allisonb17:

babygray2:

I am too...I was just going there to post something too...guess I wasn't quick enough to respond...I would like to be added back!

You only have 3 posts on here (Two of them about the FB group) and you have NEVER posted on the FB group, besides putting your name in the document.  We made it clear that we do NOT want lurkers, I am sorry, but I don't think the FB group is for you. 

 

 

mommy06

How can I join??

kelleighxnicole

Aw geez, sometimes people on here are mean.

MySallyGirl

Allisonb17:

babygray2:

I am too...I was just going there to post something too...guess I wasn't quick enough to respond...I would like to be added back!

You only have 3 posts on here (Two of them about the FB group) and you have NEVER posted on the FB group, besides putting your name in the document.  We made it clear that we do NOT want lurkers, I am sorry, but I don't think the FB group is for you. 

Agreed - if you just want to lurk to occasionally ask questions that is what the bump is for.  

iamgrace

The FB group sucks anyway. Sorry! I left it when someone admitted to slapping their baby "really hard" when she bit during nursing. I was the only one who seemed to take issue with it. That group wasn't for me. At all. I tend to think if the same thing was mentioned anywhere on the bump that woman would be flamed to hell and back.

MrsChelseaP09

iamgrace:

The FB group sucks anyway. Sorry! I left it when someone admitted to slapping their baby "really hard" when she bit during nursing. I was the only one who seemed to take issue with it. That group wasn't for me. At all. I tend to think if the same thing was mentioned anywhere on the bump that woman would be flamed to hell and back.

I have to agree. There was WAY too many random posts for me to even try to keep up with the FB group. I prefer the bump boards personally.

anglndsguse44

iamgrace:

The FB group sucks anyway. Sorry! I left it when someone admitted to slapping their baby "really hard" when she bit during nursing. I was the only one who seemed to take issue with it. That group wasn't for me. At all. I tend to think if the same thing was mentioned anywhere on the bump that woman would be flamed to hell and back.

I would like to slap that mama in the face, and then some. 

diana.filipi

opps, deleted as I'm on the wrong year of March :-)

Magical95

iamgrace:

The FB group sucks anyway. Sorry! I left it when someone admitted to slapping their baby "really hard" when she bit during nursing. I was the only one who seemed to take issue with it. That group wasn't for me. At all. I tend to think if the same thing was mentioned anywhere on the bump that woman would be flamed to hell and back.

jknit

Allisonb17:

jknit:

terribly sorry I didn't post over the last two weeks.  my son just had surgery and I had better things to take care of.

I think it may have been a mistake that you got deleted? Maybe someone spelled your name wrong when searching for your activity, and didn't think that you posted?  I can add you back in to the group if you would like. 

 

If you could add me back, I'd appreciate it.  Thank you.

 

MySallyGirl

iamgrace:

The FB group sucks anyway. Sorry! I left it when someone admitted to slapping their baby "really hard" when she bit during nursing. I was the only one who seemed to take issue with it. That group wasn't for me. At all. I tend to think if the same thing was mentioned anywhere on the bump that woman would be flamed to hell and back.

 

Yipes!  I would have taken issue with that...guess I missed it!  

iamgrace

MySallyGirl:

iamgrace:

The FB group sucks anyway. Sorry! I left it when someone admitted to slapping their baby "really hard" when she bit during nursing. I was the only one who seemed to take issue with it. That group wasn't for me. At all. I tend to think if the same thing was mentioned anywhere on the bump that woman would be flamed to hell and back.

 

Yipes!  I would have taken issue with that...guess I missed it!  

The whole thing was really weird. I questioned her on it and she saw no problem with what she was doing. I could have outed her I guess, but it felt weird because there are real names involved. Not that I would have posted hers, but she knew mine.

erikawvu

iamgrace:

MySallyGirl:

iamgrace:

The FB group sucks anyway. Sorry! I left it when someone admitted to slapping their baby "really hard" when she bit during nursing. I was the only one who seemed to take issue with it. That group wasn't for me. At all. I tend to think if the same thing was mentioned anywhere on the bump that woman would be flamed to hell and back.

 

Yipes!  I would have taken issue with that...guess I missed it!  

The whole thing was really weird. I questioned her on it and she saw no problem with what she was doing. I could have outed her I guess, but it felt weird because there are real names involved. Not that I would have posted hers, but she knew mine.

 

 She ended up leaving a few weeks ago. I guess we're offensive.

MySallyGirl

erikawvu:

iamgrace:

MySallyGirl:

iamgrace:

The FB group sucks anyway. Sorry! I left it when someone admitted to slapping their baby "really hard" when she bit during nursing. I was the only one who seemed to take issue with it. That group wasn't for me. At all. I tend to think if the same thing was mentioned anywhere on the bump that woman would be flamed to hell and back.

 

Yipes!  I would have taken issue with that...guess I missed it!  

The whole thing was really weird. I questioned her on it and she saw no problem with what she was doing. I could have outed her I guess, but it felt weird because there are real names involved. Not that I would have posted hers, but she knew mine.

 

 She ended up leaving a few weeks ago. I guess we're offensive.

Ah yes - she complained about a picture that was posted.  Funny that she was okay with slapping her baby but left the group over a picture posted she did not care for.  

tinklinz

iamgrace:

The FB group sucks anyway. Sorry! I left it when someone admitted to slapping their baby "really hard" when she bit during nursing. I was the only one who seemed to take issue with it. That group wasn't for me. At all. I tend to think if the same thing was mentioned anywhere on the bump that woman would be flamed to hell and back.

 

And flaming her would make her stop slapping her baby how?? I had a serious problem with it but my b!tching her out wouldn't have made her stop, I pick my battles and that was a losing one. And several of us did call her out on it, just FYI.

iamgrace

tinklinz:

iamgrace:

The FB group sucks anyway. Sorry! I left it when someone admitted to slapping their baby "really hard" when she bit during nursing. I was the only one who seemed to take issue with it. That group wasn't for me. At all. I tend to think if the same thing was mentioned anywhere on the bump that woman would be flamed to hell and back.

 

And flaming her would make her stop slapping her baby how?? I had a serious problem with it but my b!tching her out wouldn't have made her stop, I pick my battles and that was a losing one. And several of us did call her out on it, just FYI.

oh, I didn't mean that it would make her stop- sorry you took it that way. I am glad others called her on her behavior. I left the group immediately after the few comments I had back and forth with her so I didn't see if others took up with her afterwards.

tistampsup

Super Republican slapped her baby?  WTF!?!? 

eturp

tinklinz:

iamgrace:

The FB group sucks anyway. Sorry! I left it when someone admitted to slapping their baby "really hard" when she bit during nursing. I was the only one who seemed to take issue with it. That group wasn't for me. At all. I tend to think if the same thing was mentioned anywhere on the bump that woman would be flamed to hell and back.

 

And flaming her would make her stop slapping her baby how?? I had a serious problem with it but my b!tching her out wouldn't have made her stop, I pick my battles and that was a losing one. And several of us did call her out on it, just FYI.

I think quite a few of us had an issue with what she said about that. I definitely did. But as a group we really try to be nonjudgmental, as PP said, it wouldn't have made her stop and it became pretty clear following that post that her views/values don't mesh with the rest of us and she left. I hope you won't let one bad apple ruin your opinion on the whole group. I think we have a great dynamic over there!

Magical95

What kind of picture would make her leave a group??

babyblues314

Magical95:

What kind of picture would make her leave a group??

A photo of a naked man with a strategically placed flower.

Magical95

Oh geez. Now I could see if there was no flower....

adryan

i just noticed i was deleted too...i've posted some pics and asked some questions before...i didn't know there was a quota.

Helmet3311

Exactly.  I'm a notorious lurker on both here and FB.  I didn't realize that wasn't allowed on the FB page.  

heylee

iamgrace:

MySallyGirl:

iamgrace:

The FB group sucks anyway. Sorry! I left it when someone admitted to slapping their baby "really hard" when she bit during nursing. I was the only one who seemed to take issue with it. That group wasn't for me. At all. I tend to think if the same thing was mentioned anywhere on the bump that woman would be flamed to hell and back.

 

Yipes!  I would have taken issue with that...guess I missed it!  

The whole thing was really weird. I questioned her on it and she saw no problem with what she was doing. I could have outed her I guess, but it felt weird because there are real names involved. Not that I would have posted hers, but she knew mine.

 Actually I believe she was flamed for it...the FB group is nice and if someone is offended no one is afraid to say so.