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Urn came home today

krysiahamatykrysiahamaty
in Late Term and Child Loss

Jack is officially home with us. But instead of being in his crib in his room, he is in an urn in his room. Also a little bit of him is around my neck.

I can't believe this is happening.... 

TTC since November 2009. DH diagnosed with sperm antibodies. IUI #1 = BFN IUI #2 = BFN On the road to IVF.... Egg Retrieval Jan 21, 2011 16 eggs retrieved Egg transfer Jan 26, 2011 Only 2 viable eggs transferred. 1 IVF, 1 ICSI IVF #1 = BFP :-) 10/3/11 No heart beat at 38 weeks: Our baby Jack became an angel 12/14/11 = natural BFP Rainbow baby Samantha Jacklyn born8/8/12. Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers
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  • roxyttandmeroxyttandme member
    I am so sorry, hun. I can remember picking up Haleigh's ashes. It was a tough day. ((((hugs))))
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  • hewinkedhewinked
    ((((hugs))))
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  • CaroleeCarolee member
    Big (((HUGS))).  That was a rough day for me too.  I remember being ready to bring Eliott home, but not ready for him to be home in that way.
    Mom to Eliott Alexander, born sleeping at 37 weeks on 8/13/10. Most of us only dream of angels - I held one in my arms.
    BFP #2 - EDD 2/26/12 M/C 6/28/11 @ 5w2d
    BFP #3 - EDD 4/7/12 M/C 8/2/11 @ 4w2d
    Too beautiful for this earth
    BFP #4 - EDD 12/09/12, Lucille arrived 11/26/12
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  • ruthymusneyruthymusney member
    I'm so sorry. That must be hard. I don't know which is better of the two evils, burying them or taking them home in an urn. None of us should be in this position. ((hugs))
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  • johnnys junejohnnys june member

    imageruthymusney:
    I'm so sorry. That must be hard. I don't know which is better of the two evils, burying them or taking them home in an urn. None of us should be in this position. ((hugs))

    THIS!  *hugs*  We had Logan buried.  I needed a place where he could rest.  Anything else seemed restless to me.  If that makes sense.  I'm so sorry that any of us ever have to do this!!!   

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  • pb127pb127 member

    I remember this day so well too.  Big ((((hugs)))) Krysia, you're in my thoughts.  One hour at a time, one day at a time.

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  • kate6267kate6267
    (((hugs))) Im so sorry hunny no one should have to bring home their baby that way
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  • Mrs NiceMrs Nice member
    Hugs!

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  • starrkitten89starrkitten89
    So many ((((hugs))))

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  • krysiahamatykrysiahamaty
    Thank you all for the kind words.
    TTC since November 2009. DH diagnosed with sperm antibodies. IUI #1 = BFN IUI #2 = BFN On the road to IVF.... Egg Retrieval Jan 21, 2011 16 eggs retrieved Egg transfer Jan 26, 2011 Only 2 viable eggs transferred. 1 IVF, 1 ICSI IVF #1 = BFP :-) 10/3/11 No heart beat at 38 weeks: Our baby Jack became an angel 12/14/11 = natural BFP Rainbow baby Samantha Jacklyn born8/8/12. Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers
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  • UsafWifey09UsafWifey09 member
    I am so sorry. I remember brining our son home too. It was a very hard day.
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  • illinigalillinigal member
    Hugs.  Getting the urn home was definitely an odd feeling. 
    TTC #1 since October 2008. Dealing with MFI.
    IVF #1 w ICSI in July 2010 = BFN
    IVF #2.1 in Oct 2010 converted to IUI = BFN
    IVF #2.2 w ICSI in Dec 2010 = BFN
    Met with new RE in new city on 1/31/11.
    IVF #3 w ICSI in April 2011. HPT on 5/9 = BFP!
    Beta #1 on 5/10 (10dp5dt) = 99.4. Beta #2 on 5/12 = 284. First u/s on 5/26. = Fraternal TWINS!
    Twin boys born & lost on 8/16/11 at 18w1d due to PPROM & preterm labor.
    IVF #4.1 in Jan 2012 converted to IUI on 1/7/12 = BFN
    IVF #4.2 w ICSI in Feb 2012. Lupron on 2/10. Stims on 2/18. ER on 2/29- 7R,6F
    ET scheduled for 3/5/12- nothing to transfer :(
    Dh seeing new MFI uro & Dh starting meds- June 2012.
    IVF #5 in Dec 2012 = BFFN.
    IVF #6 planned for Spring 2013. Praying for our take home baby/ies.
    **P/SAIF and P/SAL always welcome!**

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